Hey,
How's your day, I hope it full of happiness.. Always smile to start and when you want to end the day. It help you ease the trouble in your heart.
I want to continue about the communication skill that I already wrote in this blog. The next thing you need to apply when you communicate is your vocal.
Vocal play a big part in terms of communicate with other people, sometimes misunderstanding happens because of the different intonation we use when talking to other people. Have you ever talked to someone who you adore but suddenly you fell the person is a jackass because He or She using an arrogant intonation to you?
Try this simple exercise, you just need to stand in a mirror and say "You drive me crazy"
use that phrase but with different intonation:
- Angry
- Brave
- Happy
- Humble
- Calm
Can you also notice how your body changed for each attitude? How our voice altered each time you changed your attitude? When you adjust your attitude round other people, they pick up the same feelings you have and begin to experience them for themselves. How much sense does it make to be angry or impatient when you want to make a good first impression? How much better to be excited or warm?
Your intonation make your body react exactly like your intonation. Can you imagine when you want to make a conversation but ended up fail because you are using the wrong intonation? What a loss.
Use the right intonation with different person, if the person you're having a conversation is someone who talked slowly then try to talk slowly, get along with the rhythm.When the person talk fast, try to adjust your conversation with a fast one. This trick can make the person feel the bound between Him/Her to you.
Learn and practice your intonation, let me know if you want to ask something. I hope I can make you learn and make you a good communicator.
Have a Communicate Day
-EZ
Waiting for Your Comment and Insight
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