Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Secret of Happiness


Hey,

How's your day? fantastic as usual or feeling gloomy? I hope it's great. I want to tell you a story about happiness. Here we go:

"A certain shopkeeper sent his son to learn about the secret of
happiness from the wisest man in the world. The lad wandered
through the desert for forty days, and finally came upon a beautiful
castle, high atop a mountain. It was there that the wise man lived.

"Rather than finding a saintly man, though, our hero, on entering the
main room of the castle, saw a hive of activity: tradesmen came and
went, people were conversing in the corners, a small orchestra was
playing soft music, and there was a table covered with platters of the
most delicious food in that part of the world. The wise man conversed
with every one, and the boy had to wait for two hours before it was his
turn to be given the man's attention.

"The wise man listened attentively to the boy's explanation of why he
had come, but told him that he didn't have time just then to explain
the secret of happiness. He suggested that the boy look around the
palace and return in two hours.
"'Meanwhile, I want to ask you to do something,' said the wise man,
handing the boy a teaspoon that held two drops of oil. As you wander
around, carry this spoon with you without allowing the oil to spill.'
"The boy began climbing and descending the many stairways of the
palace, keeping his eyes fixed on the spoon. After two hours, he
returned to the room where the wise man was.
"'Well,' asked the wise man, 'did you see the Persian tapestries that
are hanging in my dining hall? Did you see the garden that it took the
master gardener ten years to create? Did you notice the beautiful
parchments in my library?'
"The boy was embarrassed, and confessed that he had observed
nothing. His only concern had been not to spill the oil that the wise
man had entrusted to him.
'"Then go back and observe the marvels of my world,' said the wise
man. 'You cannot trust a man if you don't know his house.'

"Relieved, the boy picked up the spoon and returned to his exploration
of the palace, this time observing all of the works of art on the ceilings
and the walls. He saw the gardens, the mountains all around him, the
beauty of the flowers, and the taste with which everything had been
selected. Upon returning to the wise man, he related in detail
everything he had seen.
"'But where are the drops of oil I entrusted to you?' asked the wise
man.
"Looking down at the spoon he held, the boy saw that the oil was
gone.

'"Well, there is only one piece of advice I can give you,' said the wisest
of wise men. 'The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the
world, and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon.'"

I read the story from Paolo Coelho's book "The Alchemist" It's a great book, read the book, you will find a lot of knowledge about life in there.
  
Never forget who you are meanwhile enjoy the world and explore it.

Have a Happy Day
-EZ 

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Thursday, March 7, 2013

Lighten Up


Hey,

Woaahh it's been a long time since the last update.. So sorry guys, I was kinda busy with my business and my work. Some of it come with a great result, some of it come with a bad result, but hey it's life right? sometimes up sometimes down.

This couple of week I had an issue that drained my energy so much, it came to the point I loss all the positivity in me. So once I had a day of negativity, and I think it's work for me. I am letting my feeling wrapped me and do as they want, either it's positive or negative. Every motivator always say "you must see the world in a positive way" I agree with that, but if you had a really big ass problem that keep hitting you everyday, you can cry, you can become a baby again. Give your heart a break just for one day, let your heart become kid again.

And you know what, it works for me. I let my heart to cry out the problem just for one day, I called it "Lighten Up". After that I feel the rush of positive energy flow right trough my vein and my body. It's like you recharge your body. When you learn to lighten up and learn to let go the problem, universe will help you in a way that you can't imagine.

Don't you ever wish you are someone else,  you are meant to be the way you are exactly, don't you ever said you don't like the way you are, when you learn to love yourself you will go away by far.

Love yourself, lighten up, and feel the positive energy in your life.

Have a Great Day.

EZ

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Friday, January 18, 2013

Flood


Hey,

It's been a long time since the last update of my blog. Sorry for the inconvenience.. Jakarta, one of the biggest city in the world that located in Indonesia is having a disaster. Flood come over in there. A lot of people lost their house, car, even family member. It's so sad to see how many people struggle to save their life and asset.

My deepest condolence for all the people who had this experience.

I found something interesting with this disaster, we always need to see the positive side of any kind disaster that we get. I can see a lot of people helping each other whether they know or not. As a human being we are a social creature,we tend to help others in the sad or happy mood. They help without being pay, so sincere, it was a great view and a great feeling.

When is the last time you help someone? without being paid, without getting a compliment, without being told, just your inner side who want to help others?

Set aside your ego, your pride, your hate, your anger to the person who need help. Just help them, no need to make a calculation. Believe me, Law of attraction is in this world. When you help someone then someone will help you when you're in need.

Let's pray to everyone who have a hard day, who being hit by an accident, who being hit by a disaster, who lost their family member, who lost their job, who lost their love one, who in a grieve. Let's pray for them, because someone will pray for you too when you're in need.

Have a Helping Day
-EZ

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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Be a Persistent Person


Hey,

I was watching a show about someone who do a lot to achieve his or her dream. There's some people who catch my attention on how they struggle in life. I want to tell you about one person who surpassed his limit to achieve his dream.

The first person is a famous singer from Korea, Park Jin-Young. He has a nickname JYP. He released seven albums, two serial TV, two films, and  got 17 awards, He also a founder of K-Pop record label named JYP Entertainment, one of three biggest record label in South Korea. JYP Entertainment produced some of the famous actor, artist, and group in Korea such as Rain, Wonder Girls, 2 AM, 2 PM, and Miss A.

Do you know that He got rejected from almost all the Korean agency in his young age before he debuted in music industry. One of the biggest record label (SM Entertainment) also reject his application. When his spirit almost gone, he put his last effort in one small agency and he got it. He debuted in the age of 23, it's quite an old age for a debutant in Korean music industry. He tried and tried and tried to get his name in K-Pop industry, never give up is his motto. Now? He become one of the judges in one of the show in Korea that recruit an amateur person to become next Korean Idol. Can you feel the spirit that He had?

Have you ever feel that everything that you do always stuck and don't give any progress to your dream? Believe me sometimes the last try is the door to your dream. Keep fighting, keep persistent, keep the faith, keep your dream. Every effort count, learn from every failure, change it to become a better person, have a Winner attitude. Your life, your dream, your effort, don't hesitate to achieve it. Believe in your self.

See you at the top.

Have a Persistent Day
-EZ

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Monday, December 3, 2012

Doing Better


Hey,

How's life? better? I hope so. Life is a mystery and it kinda fun to solve it. Have you ever think that you doing better and better each day through life? I have.

This is some of my thought that my life is going better everyday.  I hope some of it can motivate you : )

  1. You are alive.
  2. You are able to see the sunrise and the sunset.
  3. You can walk outside and feel the breeze through your hair and the sun’s warmth on your skin.
  4. You awoke this morning with a roof over your head.
  5. You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night.
  6. You often worry about what you’re going to do with your life – your career, your family, the next step, etc. – which means you have ambition, passion, drive, and the freedom to make your own decisions.
  7. You are reasonably strong and healthy – if you got sick today, you could recover.
  8. You have someone with whom to reminisce about ‘the good old days.’
  9. You have access to clean drinking water.
  10. You have access to the Internet.
  11. You can read.
  12. You have hand phone.
  13. You have someone to care about.
  14. You breath.
The truth is, you’re doing better than a lot of people in this world.  So remember to be grateful for all the things you do have.

True wealth is the ability to fully experience life.
- Henry David Thoreau
  
Have a Great Day
-EZ

The picture was taken in Batur, Bali Island, Indonesia.

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Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Choose the Right Path



Hey,

Many things happen in our life, some bad and some good. How we handle the situation make us grow or shrink. How do you handle a difficult situation?

We usually afraid to choose a different path of our live. Many of my friends who take a financial major in university, choose the financial path in their job and complaining to me that's not their passion. Some of my friend also regretting his job because it's not their passion. But some of my friend take a massive turning  to grab his passion. He was an accountant who worked in a big accounting firm with a nice salary, because he's a genius, he was able to reach a high position in the company. A lot of people saw him as a great person with a nice job and a nice salary, do you know that he was not happy with his life. He made a massive turn.

Now, He's a chef. Can you imagine it? from accountant to chef? But, he's happy with his life. He can move forward to achieve his dream and his passion. Do you have the gut to do that?

Life is like driving a car, the most important thing is your destination. When you don't know where you want to go, then you only driving along to nowhere waiting the gas empty. When you want to enjoy a nice sunset in a beautiful beach in the beach with a glass of refreshing drink, don't go to a mountain. Take a risk to fulfill your dream and passion.

Experience.  Dream.  Risk.  Close your eyes, jump, and enjoy the free fall.  Choose exhilaration over predictability.  Choose growth over comfort.  Choose potential over safety.  Wake up to the magic of life.
Make friends with your intuition.  Trust your gut.  Discover the beauty of uncertainty.  Know yourself fully before you make promises to others.  Make lots of mistakes so that you will know how to discern what you truly need.

Learn when to hold on and when to let go.  Love hard and often and without reservation.  Seek knowledge.  Open yourself to possibility.  Keep your heart honest, your head high, and your spirit free.  Embrace your darkness along with your light.  Be wrong every once in a while, and be okay with it.
Awaken to the brilliance in ordinary moments.  Live the truth no matter what the cost.  Own your reality without apology.  See goodness in the world.  Be Bold.  Be Fierce.  Be grateful.  Be wild, crazy, and gloriously free.

Take Chances. Take lots of them.  Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be.  Stop regretting things and start accepting them as the teachers they are.  Your most significant opportunities will be found in times of great difficulty.  Your mistakes make you who you are.  You learn and grow with each choice you make.  Everything is worth it.  Listen to your heart.

I also have some difficulties in choosing the right path, but I am trying to achieve my dream and passion. Let's change together to choose the right path even thought it's so hard to do it. Remember there's no growth in comfort zone and there's no comfort in growth zone.

Have a Choosing Day
-EZ

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Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Holiday? Why not


Hey,

How's life? I hope it's good as always, if not then it's time for you to take a break from the crowd in the city. Trust me it will refresh your soul and make impact to your life.

Last week I had a great week with my little family, we spent our time in Hongkong and Singapore just strolling around seeing many different places. Tired? of course but it's fantastic experience. Me and my wife have a commitment to have a holiday at least once a year either abroad or in domestic place in Indonesia. Why? because we want to spend our money that we collect about a year in an experiencing event. Plus we can have a refreshing moment in life. We can recharged our soul, love life, family time, quality time, plus holiday is food for my soul, eye, heart, and brain.

You also need a refreshing moment in life, don't over work your life, always work work work, spend you time in a stressful daily moment. Try to take a break, spend some time with your love one, your family, your friends, anyone as long you feel happy with it. In my case, I prefer to take a holiday.

What about the money? Some people feel so bad if they spend a lot of money to go to holiday, hey what's the point of busting your ass everyday to get money?  TO MAKE A HAPPIER LIFE in you. You can find more money again tomorrow, but enjoy your life today.

Experience is important, you live only once in this beautiful world so enjoy it to the fullest.

Have a Great Day
-EZ


ps: The picture is a scene in Symphony of Light in Hongkong

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