tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-80704990806122509552024-03-13T11:56:42.164-07:00Emir ZakiarYou know that people nowadays have a very hard time when talking in front of crowd, I am the man who can make you communicate easily without being awkward and get what you need.
Plus, nowadays people tend to work harder and harder without giving concern to their happiness, I am giving you insight about how we enjoying our lives and being happy so you can shout "I AM HAPPY WITH MY LIVE".Emir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.comBlogger96125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-6087690817263246932016-04-12T00:56:00.000-07:002016-04-12T00:57:01.596-07:00Life and Time<div style="text-align: center;">
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Hows life? woooww its already 2016 and I only post one post in 2015, my bad my bad.. I learned a lot in 2015, had much experience in career, love, and decision making process. Many things happened in 2015, I called it the year of survival. Economic downfall worldwide, many jobless, increasing price in primary needs like food, clothes, and shelter. But I survive hahaha, I hope you also survive in the year of 2015.</div>
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In the middle of survival I learn many things and I concluded two main things that we need to treasure in life.</div>
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The two most important practices in life necessitate <b>the proper
management of time</b> and <b>the continual development of personal
relationships</b>. Possessing an elite social status with an abundance of
money, a solid education, and even perfect health will seem irrelevant
in the face of routine loneliness. What’s the point in striving for
personal success if you don’t have anyone to share your story with, or
enough time to enjoy it? </div>
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All too often in the news we read success stories supporting the
endeavors of young career professionals that put “their lives” on hold
while in pursuit of the prestigious career and job title of their
dreams. I’m not saying it’s wrong, I truly believe you should pursuit
your dreams. Putting all your effort into achieving something you truly
desire makes sense… it is basis behind the everyone dream. However,
there must be a balance. The time spent on business matters can never
be recovered. If sufficient time is not allocated to fostering new
relationships and nurturing current ones, will the end result suitably
reflect the original envisioned dream, or will it leave something to be
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Remember, you can easily invest your time in exchange for money, status,
education, and health; but nothing can buy you more time. Make sure
you spend it wisely, leaving enough time for the people you care about
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Life and Time are the best teachers, life teaches us to make good of time and time teaches us the value of life. </div>
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See you all soon.</div>
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Warm regards</div>
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Emir Zakiar</div>
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-52667381129182193712015-03-31T03:10:00.001-07:002015-03-31T03:10:57.009-07:00Hello Guys and Girls <br />
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Hello Guys and Girls, WooW its been a veeerryy long time since the last update and now its already 2015 WoooW..<br />
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Happy 2015, hows life? I always pray for our life to be better and better each day.. hmm even though sometimes we feel like being thrown into a deep abyss but knock it off and stand tall. I know its hard, I also have a hard time to pass it, but believe me when you passed it then it feels like heaven (even tough I never go to heaven) but I think the feel will be like it hehehe.<br />
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I just want to ramble this time, not giving some advice like it used to be, with numbers, but with a ramble.<br />
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A couple of month before, I switch job and begin to pursue my career, there's a difference between job and career. One of the difference is when you have a job, you feel time go soooo slow, have you ever felt like already working for three hour then when you see your watch "dang" it just only thirty minutes pass? hahaha I've been there done that.<br />
In career, you feel the time is too fast, you work in some project or services that you love and suddenly its already night and day almost change. Sometimes you feel i need more time to do this and that, that's a career.<br />
If you in a job now I hope you will find a career soon, and if you already in a career then congratulation and dont judge people with job (they also trying hard to escape from it).<br />
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Sooo now I am in my career life, I learn a lot in this new and exciting project, meet many new people, some can be trusted and some just talking bullsh*t (but heey that's life. We meet many difference people from difference culture and difference background, that's what makes life more colorful), new strategy to develop, new way to make a deal with people even the government people (yeah right I know the government, no difference in every country I think, correct me if I am wrong). I also found a new difference way to deal with strategy and people, now its more enjoyable to hear what people say than talking to them, now I can know their true identity and goal just by asking simple question then let them do the talk, some thing that they kept secret at first can be blurred out in their unconscious mind.<br />
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Someday I will share how I did it, for now I am glad we can passed 2014 and struggling in 2015, who know what will happen in 2015.<br />
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I hope I can share more in 2015 than in 2014, I really miss writing.<br />
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See you all soon.<br />
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Warm Regards<br />
Emir Zakiar<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0Menteng Dalam, Tebet, South Jakarta City, Special Capital Region of Jakarta, Indonesia-6.2205106783088961 106.84573173522949-6.2284031783088958 106.83564673522949 -6.2126181783088965 106.8558167352295tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-17581255523925624502014-04-22T05:50:00.001-07:002014-04-22T05:50:31.804-07:00Little Ways to Find Happiness in What You Already Have<br />
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Whats up my friends? it's been a long time since the last update.. Been busy in here. How's life? been great as usual? or miserable? life is a roller coaster right? sometimes we end up in the top and sometimes we end up in the bottom. The way we react determine our happiness toward life.</div>
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Find your happiness everywhere, sometimes you find happiness in the small things that you forget. happiness is valuing what you have, and enjoying the people, places,
objects and events in your life for what they are. It’s not about
making massive breakthroughs every minute… sometimes it’s simply about
being, appreciating, and making small tweaks. And you can almost always
enjoy the things you have and make the best of the events happening
around you if you decide firmly that you will.
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No, life isn’t perfect, but it’s pretty darn good. You just have to…</div>
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<li><strong>Embrace your humanness.</strong> – Do not endlessly search
of sanctity, sacredness, and purity – these things are found after this
life, not in it. But in this life you can search to be human – to feel,
to give, to take, to laugh, to dance, to get lost, to be found, to love
and to lust… to be so unapologetically and beautifully human in every
imaginable way. </li>
<li><strong>Realize your greatness.</strong> – Contrary to what others
may say, you do not need to rise to the top, or be the cream of the
crop, before you can feel great about yourself. For you are not a
failure because you’re not perfect, got rejected or laid off, struggle
to make ends meet, or have a family with issues. You are great because,
despite your circumstances, you keep loving, you keep getting back up
after every fall, and, above all, the little steps you keep taking, you
take with grace.</li>
<li><strong>Accept yourself just the way you are.</strong> – Too many days
are wasted comparing ourselves to others and wishing to be something we
aren’t. Everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is
only when you accept everything you are, and aren’t, that you will truly
find happiness and success. </li>
<li><strong>Dedicate time every day to meaningful activities.</strong> –
What you do every day matters, but WHY you do what you do matters more.
Continue to work hard at what you love no matter what the odds are.
And if you only have fifteen minutes to spare, no problem – make those
fifteen minutes meaningful.</li>
<li><strong>Look for and appreciate the lessons.</strong> – Rather than just
regretting something, question specifically how it has helped you
grow. Has your past equipped you to be determined, self-reliant,
perceptive, tough, aware, compassionate, etc.? Focus on what you have
gained rather than lost from adverse past experiences.</li>
<li><strong>Do what you can right now.</strong> – It’s not as much about
acquiring new things as it is about using what you already have. Don’t
let what you can’t do stop you from what you can do. No more excuses,
no more wasting precious time. This moment is as good a time as any to
begin doing what matters most. Start exactly where you are right now.
Do what you can with what you have right now. Stop over-thinking and
start DOING.</li>
<li><strong>Take it just one easy step at a time.</strong> – Sometimes the
smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of
your life. Tiptoe if you must, but take the step.</li>
<li><strong>Measure your progress, no matter how small.</strong> – You may
not be where you want to be yet, but look how far you’ve come. Be
thankful that you’re not where you used to be. If you have no other
testimony right now, you have this one: “I’m still here trying.”</li>
<li><strong>Let hate GO.</strong> – Holding hatred is poisonous. It eats
you from inside out. We naively think that hating is a weapon that
attacks the person who harmed us, but hatred is a curved blade. And the
only harm we do, we do to ourselves.</li>
<li><strong>Forgive.</strong> – Sometimes we don’t forgive people because
they deserve it. We forgive them because they need it, because we need
it, and because we cannot let go and move forward without it.</li>
<li><strong>Spend more time around those special people who truly care.</strong>
– You grow to be like the people you spend most of your time with. So
surround yourself with only those who are going to lift you higher.</li>
<li><strong>Do just a little bit of good today.</strong> – The fact that you
can plant a seed and it becomes a flower, share a bit of knowledge and
it becomes another’s, smile at someone and receive a smile in return, is
proof that YOU can make a big difference.</li>
<li><strong>Be grateful.</strong> – Gratitude is simply the awareness of
what’s right. Count the blessings in your life, and start with the
breath you’re taking right now.</li>
<li><strong>Be present.</strong> – Do not dwell so much on creating your perfect life that you forget to live.</li>
<li><strong>Pay attention to the little things.</strong> – …because when you
really miss “the good ol’ days,” you miss the little things the most,
like just laughing with someone special.</li>
<li><strong>Schedule in some dedicated down time.</strong> – Find the time…
the time to read, to smell the flowers, to take a walk in the
wilderness, to share a laugh, to learn a fun craft, to try a new recipe,
to explore somewhere new, to really be with someone you love, to paint
your dreams, or even to just do nothing and relax for a while.</li>
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miserable, or happier and stronger. The amount of work is the same.</em></div>
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Have a Happy days<br />
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Best Regards<br />
EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-63255962672732277702014-02-16T23:56:00.000-08:002014-02-16T23:56:36.431-08:00Successful Self Employed<br />
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day and life? I hope it's great.. Been busy and kinda forget about this blog, but I will update more frequently now.<br />
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Are you a self-employee? It's hard to be a self-employee, many things need to be done and full of uncertainty. We need to manage a lot of things to survive in this fierce competition. There's some negatives and positives in self-employee world depends on how you see it.<br />
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I want to share some of tricks that can you manage to become a successful self-employee.<br />
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1 – We Only Have 2 Products: Time and Knowledge</h3>
No matter how you make a living or who you think you work for, you only work for one person, yourself. Likewise, you only have 2 products to sell, your time and your knowledge. Here are a few example scenarios:<br />
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<li><b>Migrant Farmer</b> – Sells hours of his/her life to
pick fruit or vegetables for a farmer in exchange for money. A perfect
example of trading hours for dollars.</li>
<li><b>Doctor</b> – Sells hours of his/her life to perform
medical treatments based on the knowledge stored in his/her brain. A
perfect example of trading hours and knowledge for dollars.</li>
<li><b>Best-Selling Author</b> – Spends time crafting a book
based on his/her knowledge or intellectual capacity and then sells the
book (knowledge) many times over. A perfect example of trading
knowledge for dollars. The key benefit here is residual, passive
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In almost all cases of the self-employed, <b>the small business owner is taking information out of his or her brain and spending the necessary time to convert it into product of value.</b>
This concept confuses some people, and to others it seems obvious. The
bottom line is that customers pay you for your time and knowledge.
Success is achieved by properly crafting the two into one convenient
bundle that can be sold many times over (think of products vs.
services).<br />
What knowledge do you have in your brain that provides value to others? How can you extract this information and sell it?<br />
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2 – The Implementation of Knowledge is Power</h3>
Knowledge alone is not power! The implementation of knowledge is
power. Knowledge is simply a commodity; it’s a product like any other
that has the potential to be sold. How knowledge is organized,
packaged, presented, shared, and received by others is what makes
knowledge so powerful.<br />
Knowledge is useless unless it’s effectively shared with others. <b>Your ability to educate others in a way that allows them to effectively apply the instruction is what makes knowledge an asset…</b> something worth buying.<br />
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3 – Time is More Valuable than Money</h3>
One of the most important points to understand is the fact that there
are two basic forms of currency, money and time. Of the two, time is
the most valuable, for it cannot be replenished. <b>A surplus of time, and the unfettered liberty to do with it as you choose, is the true measure of success</b>.<br />
Your time must be extracted from the formula of making money. No
matter how skilled you are at transferring your knowledge to others, if
you are paid on an hours for dollars basis, your ability to expand your
business will eventually plateau. You will run out of time.<br />
The successfully self-employed have made this realization and concentrate the majority of their time and effort on <b>the single greatest secret of self-employment: generating passive income.</b>
Passive income is achieved by applying what you know into a package
that can be designed and built once, and then repeatedly sold over and
over again. Finding a unique way to promote and sell this knowledge is
the key.<br />
<b>Passive Income Examples:</b> Useful books and guides, time saving computer applications, etc.<br />
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4 – Success is About Knowing What You Want</h3>
Self-employed success is not the byproduct of working your way up
from the ground up. It’s based on knowing what you want, understanding
your abilities and implementing them diligently to achieve your goals.
There are plenty of people who get laid-off from their 9 to 5 day job
and end up making millions in a few short years of self-employment.<br />
Take a look at some of the success stories around you that emerged from nowhere. These success stories were not
initiated by people paying their dues to someone else’s initiatives.
These success stories revolve strictly around perception and choice.
The people in these stories know their capabilities, what they’re doing,
and what they want. Once people make this realization, and the
conscious choice to act on it, the possibilities for success are
limitless.<br />
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Have a Great Day<br />
EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-41620177816884724822014-01-02T00:03:00.001-08:002014-01-02T00:03:45.017-08:00Happy New Year 2014<br />
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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2014<br />
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New year<br />New hope<br />
New target<br />
new experience<br />
new goal<br />
new achievement<br />
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May the year of 2014 will be better than 2013.<br />
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Cheerss!!!<br />
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Best Regards<br />
EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-64178776305551315172013-10-22T00:33:00.001-07:002013-10-22T00:33:46.591-07:00Life is Too Short to Tolerate<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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It's been a long time since the last update.. My bad for the lack of update, it's been a hectic day for me and my team to finish our business. We actually move step ahead in our business, sometimes a lot of obstacles heading us, as long as we are preparing to overcome the obstacle we can pass through it.<br />
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In my opinion, sometimes obstacles happened when you start too much tolerating something you shouldn't tolerate.<br />
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You don’t have to settle, it’s simply a choice you make every day. If
you feel like you’re running in place there’s a good chance you’re
tolerating things you shouldn’t be. It’s time to reclaim your life. <br />
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Starting now, stop tolerating for this things:<br />
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<strong>People who bring you down.</strong> – Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded.<br />
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<strong>A work environment or career field you hate.</strong> – Don’t
settle on the first or second career field you dabble in. Keep
searching. Eventually you will find work you love to do. If you catch
yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop. You’re
on to something big. Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate
on your passions.<br />
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<strong>Your own negativity.</strong> – Be aware of your mental
self-talk. We all talk silently to ourselves in our heads, but we
aren’t always conscious of what we’re saying or how it’s affecting us.
Start listening to your thoughts. If you hear negative thoughts, stop
and replace them with positive thoughts.<br />
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<strong>Unnecessary miscommunication.</strong> – Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Speak clearly. Ask questions. Clarify things until you understand them.<br />
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<strong>Pressure to fit in with the crowd.</strong> – Oftentimes, the
only reason others want you to fit in is that once you do they can
ignore you and go about their business. Don’t conform. Be you, because
that’s the only person you can be.<br />
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<strong>Fear of change.</strong> – Life is change. Every day is different. Every day is a new beginning and a new ending. Embrace it and make the best of it.<br />
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<strong>All work and no play.</strong> – Enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can. If you’re smiling, you’re doing something right. <b>Believe me in this one</b><br />
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<b><strong>People or beauty ads that make you feel inadequate.</strong> – </b>Good looks attracts the eyes. Personality attracts the heart. Be proud to be you. You are already beautiful. <br />
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<strong>Doing the same exact thing over and over again.</strong> – You are the sum of your life experiences. The more you experience, the more interesting your life story gets.<br />
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<strong>A mounting pile of debt.</strong> – Always live well below your
means. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need. Always sleep on big purchases.
Create a budget and savings plan and stick to them.<br />
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<strong>Dishonesty.</strong> – Living a life of honesty creates peace of
mind, and peace of mind is priceless. Period. Don’t be dishonest and
don’t put up with people who are.<br />
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<strong>Being unprepared.</strong> – Life is unpredictable. And there’s a big difference between being scared and being prepared. Always be prepared.<br />
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<strong>Inaction.</strong> – Either you’re going to take action and
seize new opportunities or someone else will. You can’t change anything
or make any sort of progress by sitting back and thinking about it<br />
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This is sum up all of my thought about set aside the tolerance. Do something to change the world, if you can't so do something to change your country, if you can't so do something to change your community, if you can't so do something to change your family, if you can't so do something to change yourself.<br />
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But, belive me if you start to do something to change yourself someday you have the action to change the world little by little.<br />
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And remember, you only live once, but if you live it right once is enough.<br />
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Have a Changing Day<br />
Best Regards<br />
EZ <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-728052170474869212013-08-19T01:33:00.001-07:002013-08-19T01:35:30.573-07:00You Go to Success<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,</div>
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How's life? I hope it always great, see the world in a positive way and the world will help you in a positive way. It's been a long time since the last update.. really really sorry. It's been a great months for me and my business.</div>
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First of all I want to say Minal Aidin wal Faidzin, I am asking for forgiveness in the deepest place of my heart. </div>
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O yeah Happy the 68th Independence day for Indonesia Hoorrayy!!</div>
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In this couple of months I was having a great business deal for my company. I've met many new friends and colleagues and we discussed a lot of important thing to increase our values. Many people have a great dream but afraid to achieve it. They stuck in their comfort zone, do you know outside the comfort zone there's a treasure well hidden called opportunities. Never be afraid to to go for your dream and goals, the regret and what ifs are worse than failing. </div>
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I believe if we want to do a very good deeds, universe will come to help us, we don't know where it come from but it come. </div>
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In life, you don’t get what you want, you get what you work for.</div>
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Here are some ideas for making it happen:</div>
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1. Every morning ask: “Is this what I want for myself?”</h3>
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Whenever the answer has been “no” for too many mornings in a row, you
know it’s time to make a change. If you follow this principle a lot of
life’s big decisions are actually pretty simple.</div>
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Long-term happiness is the settling of your soul into its most
appropriate spot. This spot contains the ideas, passions, people, and
places that move you.</div>
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Accept responsibility for making these things possible in your life.
Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one
else. Be honest with yourself. If you catch yourself following the
crowd on automatic pilot simply because it’s the easiest option, it’s
time to pause and reflect.<br />
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2. Turn your dream into actionable steps and execute.</h3>
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Action breeds results. Slice your big-picture dream into a set of small goals and<span id="more-558"></span> meet them.</div>
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Execute, execute, execute. You are responsible for getting things
done. It always comes down to your actions. You choose: either action
and results or inaction and excuses. You can’t have both.</div>
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The pain of discipline is far less than the pain of rregret Do what you have to do – 100% of it. No one has ever given a dream their best shot and regretted it.</div>
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3. Take a few small steps every single day.</h3>
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Don’t build mountains in your mind. Don’t try to conquer it all at once. Take everything in stride, one step at a time.</div>
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When you seek instant gratification you make life unnecessarily
painful and frustrating. When you choose instead to treat each moment
as an opportunity to make a small, positive, long-term investment in
your future, the rewards come naturally.</div>
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Although each individual effort may seem to have no effect when you
make it, at some point you’ll look back and realize the momentous impact
your efforts created once they were added together. By moving at this
sustainable pace, you’ll be able to continue moving forward for as long
as it takes to get precisely where you want to go.</div>
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4. Exercise rock solid self-control.</h3>
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Your ability to restrain an impulse by cross-referencing your moral values and goals creates the essence of your long term happiness and success.</div>
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You are never going to get what you want until you learn how to do
what’s right even when it feels wrong. Every time you do what’s right
by a decision of your will using discipline and self control to go
beyond momentary feelings of weakness, you get that much closer to what
you want.</div>
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5. Practice until you’re an expert, and keep practicing.</h3>
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In all walks of life, achieving greatness is a choice. Practice makes it possible. You are what you practice most.</div>
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Whatever you decide to do, do it well. Do it so well that when
others see you do it, they enjoy it so much that they want to come back
and see you do it again, and they also want to bring their friends along
so they can show them how incredible you are at doing what you do.<br />
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6. Mind your thoughts and your words.</h3>
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Understand the power of your thoughts, and guard them more closely.
Understand the power of your words, and prefer silence to anything
negative. Through your thoughts and words you create your own
weaknesses and strengths. Your limitations begin in your mind where you
can always replace negative with positive.</div>
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So stop worrying about negative scenarios that are merely figments of
your imagination. Allow your thoughts to encourage you rather than
hinder you. Focus on the moment in front of you. Free yourself to deal
effectively and successfully with what is real and what is now.</div>
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7. Surround yourself with people who lift you higher.</h3>
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You are the average of the people you spend the most time with. The
great danger of being around negative people is that you start to become
like them without even knowing it.</div>
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Relationships must be chosen wisely. Bad company corrupts good
morals and human potential. There’s no need to rush into a relationship
you are unsure of, or associate with those who hold you back.</div>
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8. Give back.</h3>
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The great Zig Ziglar once said, “You can get everything in life you
want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”</div>
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For it is in giving that we receive. In other words, what goes
around comes around in this world. As we work to create light for
others, we naturally light our own way<br />
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9. Create balance.</h3>
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Be diligent and committed to your work, but also make sure you leave
time for pleasure and exploration. It is not enough to succeed at one
specific goal; you also have to take part in the different dimension of your life – while you can, while there’s time.</div>
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Lift your head up from your work every now and then and take a long
walk, hold hands with your beloved, go fishing, spend time with your
friends, swim, bask in the sunlight, try something new, meditate,
breathe deep, or sit quietly for a while and contemplate the goodness
around you.</div>
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In other words, balance yourself – work diligently, but don’t ignore
every other aspect of your life. Keep your mind fresh, your body active
and alive, and your relationships nurtured. Do so, and the things you
want most in life will come more naturally.</div>
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Success doesn't come to you, YOU GO TO IT.</div>
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Have a Success Day</div>
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EZ</div>
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Emir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-50979045566790287582013-04-17T00:41:00.002-07:002013-04-17T00:41:54.394-07:00Secret of Happiness<br />
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day? fantastic as usual or feeling gloomy? I hope it's great. I want to tell you a story about happiness. Here we go:<br />
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"A certain shopkeeper sent his son to learn about the secret of<br />
happiness from the wisest man in the world. The lad wandered<br />
through the desert for forty days, and finally came upon a beautiful<br />
castle, high atop a mountain. It was there that the wise man lived.<br />
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"Rather than finding a saintly man, though, our hero, on entering the<br />
main room of the castle, saw a hive of activity: tradesmen came and<br />
went, people were conversing in the corners, a small orchestra was<br />
playing soft music, and there was a table covered with platters of the<br />
most delicious food in that part of the world. The wise man conversed<br />
with every one, and the boy had to wait for two hours before it was his<br />
turn to be given the man's attention.<br />
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"The wise man listened attentively to the boy's explanation of why he<br />
had come, but told him that he didn't have time just then to explain<br />
the secret of happiness. He suggested that the boy look around the<br />
palace and return in two hours.<br />
"'Meanwhile, I want to ask you to do something,' said the wise man,<br />
handing the boy a teaspoon that held two drops of oil. As you wander<br />
around, carry this spoon with you without allowing the oil to spill.'<br />
"The boy began climbing and descending the many stairways of the<br />
palace, keeping his eyes fixed on the spoon. After two hours, he<br />
returned to the room where the wise man was.<br />
"'Well,' asked the wise man, 'did you see the Persian tapestries that<br />
are hanging in my dining hall? Did you see the garden that it took the<br />
master gardener ten years to create? Did you notice the beautiful<br />
parchments in my library?'<br />
"The boy was embarrassed, and confessed that he had observed<br />
nothing. His only concern had been not to spill the oil that the wise<br />
man had entrusted to him.<br />
'"Then go back and observe the marvels of my world,' said the wise<br />
man. 'You cannot trust a man if you don't know his house.'<br />
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"Relieved, the boy picked up the spoon and returned to his exploration<br />
of the palace, this time observing all of the works of art on the ceilings<br />
and the walls. He saw the gardens, the mountains all around him, the<br />
beauty of the flowers, and the taste with which everything had been<br />
selected. Upon returning to the wise man, he related in detail<br />
everything he had seen.<br />
"'But where are the drops of oil I entrusted to you?' asked the wise<br />
man.<br />
"Looking down at the spoon he held, the boy saw that the oil was<br />
gone.<br />
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'"Well, there is only one piece of advice I can give you,' said the wisest<br />
of wise men. <span style="font-weight: bold;">'The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the</span><br style="font-weight: bold;" />
<span id="yui_3_7_2_18_1366183296488_184" style="font-weight: bold;">world, and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon.'"</span><br />
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I read the story from Paolo Coelho's book "The Alchemist" It's a great book, read the book, you will find a lot of knowledge about life in there.<br />
<span id="yui_3_7_2_18_1366183296488_184" style="font-weight: bold;"> </span><span id="yui_3_7_2_18_1366183296488_184" style="font-weight: bold;"> </span><br />
<span id="yui_3_7_2_18_1366183296488_184" style="font-weight: bold;">Never forget who you are meanwhile enjoy the world and explore it.</span><br />
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<span id="yui_3_7_2_18_1366183296488_184" style="font-weight: bold;">Have a Happy Day</span><br />
<span id="yui_3_7_2_18_1366183296488_184" style="font-weight: bold;">-EZ </span> <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-2223905880643362582013-03-07T22:44:00.003-08:002013-03-07T22:44:36.247-08:00Lighten Up<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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Woaahh it's been a long time since the last update.. So sorry guys, I was kinda busy with my business and my work. Some of it come with a great result, some of it come with a bad result, but hey it's life right? sometimes up sometimes down.<br />
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This couple of week I had an issue that drained my energy so much, it came to the point I loss all the positivity in me. So once I had a day of negativity, and I think it's work for me. I am letting my feeling wrapped me and do as they want, either it's positive or negative. Every motivator always say "you must see the world in a positive way" I agree with that, but if you had a really big ass problem that keep hitting you everyday, you can cry, you can become a baby again. Give your heart a break just for one day, let your heart become kid again.<br />
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And you know what, it works for me. I let my heart to cry out the problem just for one day, I called it "Lighten Up". After that I feel the rush of positive energy flow right trough my vein and my body. It's like you recharge your body. When you learn to lighten up and learn to let go the problem, universe will help you in a way that you can't imagine. <br />
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Don't you ever wish you are someone else, you are meant to be the way you are exactly, don't you ever said you don't like the way you are, when you learn to love yourself you will go away by far. <br />
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Love yourself, lighten up, and feel the positive energy in your life.<br />
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Have a Great Day.<br />
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EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-69977636163314682602013-01-18T00:04:00.000-08:002013-01-18T00:04:06.609-08:00Flood <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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It's been a long time since the last update of my blog. Sorry for the inconvenience.. Jakarta, one of the biggest city in the world that located in Indonesia is having a disaster. Flood come over in there. A lot of people lost their house, car, even family member. It's so sad to see how many people struggle to save their life and asset.<br />
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My deepest condolence for all the people who had this experience.<br />
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I found something interesting with this disaster, we always need to see the positive side of any kind disaster that we get. I can see a lot of people helping each other whether they know or not. As a human being we are a social creature,we tend to help others in the sad or happy mood. They help without being pay, so sincere, it was a great view and a great feeling.<br />
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When is the last time you help someone? without being paid, without getting a compliment, without being told, just your inner side who want to help others? <br />
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Set aside your ego, your pride, your hate, your anger to the person who need help. Just help them, no need to make a calculation. Believe me, <a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/05/law-of-attraction.html" target="_blank">Law of attraction</a> is in this world. When you help someone then someone will help you when you're in need.<br />
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Let's pray to everyone who have a hard day, who being hit by an accident, who being hit by a disaster, who lost their family member, who lost their job, who lost their love one, who in a grieve. Let's pray for them, because someone will pray for you too when you're in need. <br />
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Have a Helping Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0Jakarta Selatan, Jakarta, Indonesia-6.267522831839373 106.77131652832031-6.3306568318393728 106.69063552832031 -6.2043888318393732 106.85199752832031tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-47902856095516209692012-12-04T23:50:00.000-08:002012-12-04T23:50:24.962-08:00Be a Persistent Person<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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I was watching a show about someone who do a lot to achieve his or her dream. There's some people who catch my attention on how they struggle in life. I want to tell you about one person who surpassed his limit to achieve his dream.<br />
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The first person is a famous singer from Korea, Park Jin-Young. He has a nickname JYP. He released seven albums, two serial TV, two films, and got 17 awards, He also a founder of K-Pop record label named JYP Entertainment, one of three biggest record label in South Korea. JYP Entertainment produced some of the famous actor, artist, and group in Korea such as Rain, Wonder Girls, 2 AM, 2 PM, and Miss A.<br />
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Do you know that He got rejected from almost all the Korean agency in his young age before he debuted in music industry. One of the biggest record label (SM Entertainment) also reject his application. When his spirit almost gone, he put his last effort in one small agency and he got it. He debuted in the age of 23, it's quite an old age for a debutant in Korean music industry. He tried and tried and tried to get his name in K-Pop industry, never give up is his motto. Now? He become one of the judges in one of the show in Korea that recruit an amateur person to become next Korean Idol. Can you feel the spirit that He had?<br />
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Have you ever feel that everything that you do always stuck and don't give any progress to your dream? Believe me sometimes the last try is the door to your dream. Keep fighting, keep persistent, keep the faith, keep your dream. Every effort count, learn from every failure, change it to become a better person, have a <a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/04/winners-vs-losers.html" target="_blank">Winner</a> attitude. Your life, your dream, your effort, don't hesitate to achieve it. <a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/04/believe-in-your-self.html" target="_blank">Believe in your self</a>.<br />
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See you at the top.<br />
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Have a Persistent Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-89202777896538267322012-12-03T20:05:00.002-08:002012-12-03T20:05:43.578-08:00Doing Better<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's life? better? I hope so. Life is a mystery and it kinda fun to solve it. Have you ever think that you doing better and better each day through life? I have.<br />
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This is some of my thought that my life is going better everyday. I hope some of it can motivate you : )<br />
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<li>You are alive.</li>
<li>You are able to see the sunrise and the sunset.</li>
<li>You can walk outside and feel the breeze through your hair and the sun’s warmth on your skin.</li>
<li>You awoke this morning with a roof over your head.</li>
<li>You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night.</li>
<li>You often worry about what you’re going to do with your life – your
career, your family, the next step, etc. – which means you have
ambition, passion, drive, and the freedom to make your own decisions.</li>
<li>You are reasonably strong and healthy – if you got sick today, you could recover.</li>
<li>You have someone with whom to reminisce about ‘the good old days.’</li>
<li>You have access to clean drinking water.</li>
<li>You have access to the Internet.</li>
<li>You can read.</li>
<li>You have hand phone.</li>
<li>You have someone to care about.</li>
<li>You breath.</li>
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The truth is, you’re doing better than a lot of people in this world.
So remember to be grateful for all the things you do have. <br />
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<em>True wealth is the ability to fully experience life.<br />
- Henry David Thoreau</em></div>
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Have a Great Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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The picture was taken in Batur, Bali Island, Indonesia.<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-55237416073351879652012-10-30T00:22:00.001-07:002012-10-30T00:22:21.492-07:00Choose the Right Path<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
<br />
Many things happen in our life, some bad and some good. How we handle the situation make us grow or shrink. How do you handle a difficult situation?<br />
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We usually afraid to choose a different path of our live. Many of my friends who take a financial major in university, choose the financial path in their job and complaining to me that's not their passion. Some of my friend also regretting his job because it's not their passion. But some of my friend take a massive turning to grab his passion. He was an accountant who worked in a big accounting firm with a nice salary, because he's a genius, he was able to reach a high position in the company. A lot of people saw him as a great person with a nice job and a nice salary, do you know that he was not happy with his life. He made a massive turn.<br />
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Now, He's a chef. Can you imagine it? from accountant to chef? But, he's happy with his life. He can move forward to achieve his dream and his passion. Do you have the gut to do that?<br />
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Life is like driving a car, the most important thing is your destination. When you don't know where you want to go, then you only driving along to nowhere waiting the gas empty. When you want to enjoy a nice sunset in a beautiful beach in the beach with a glass of refreshing drink, don't go to a mountain. Take a risk to fulfill your dream and passion.<br />
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Experience. Dream. Risk. Close your eyes, jump, and enjoy the free
fall. Choose exhilaration over predictability. Choose growth over
comfort. Choose potential over safety. Wake up to the magic of life.<br />
Make friends with your intuition. Trust your gut. Discover the
beauty of uncertainty. Know yourself fully before you make promises to
others. Make lots of mistakes so that you will know how to discern what
you truly need.<br />
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Learn when to hold on and when to let go. Love hard and often and
without reservation. Seek knowledge. Open yourself to possibility.
Keep your heart honest, your head high, and your spirit free. Embrace
your darkness along with your light. Be wrong every once in a while,
and be okay with it.<br />
Awaken to the brilliance in ordinary moments. Live the truth no
matter what the cost. Own your reality without apology. See goodness
in the world. Be Bold. Be Fierce. Be grateful. Be wild, crazy, and
gloriously free.<br />
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Take Chances. Take lots of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and
with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Stop regretting
things and start accepting them as the teachers they are. Your most
significant opportunities will be found in times of great difficulty.
Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice
you make. Everything is worth it. Listen to your heart.<br />
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I also have some difficulties in choosing the right path, but I am trying to achieve my dream and passion. Let's change together to choose the right path even thought it's so hard to do it. Remember there's no growth in comfort zone and there's no comfort in growth zone. <br />
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Have a Choosing Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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.Emir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-57312096271000675542012-10-17T00:31:00.001-07:002012-10-17T00:31:20.476-07:00Holiday? Why not<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's life? I hope it's good as always, if not then it's time for you to take a break from the crowd in the city. Trust me it will refresh your soul and make impact to your life.<br />
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Last week I had a great week with my little family, we spent our time in Hongkong and Singapore just strolling around seeing many different places. Tired? of course but it's fantastic experience. Me and my wife have a commitment to have a holiday at least once a year either abroad or in domestic place in Indonesia. Why? because we want to spend our money that we collect about a year in an experiencing event. Plus we can have a refreshing moment in life. We can recharged our soul, love life, family time, quality time, plus holiday is food for my soul, eye, heart, and brain.<br />
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You also need a refreshing moment in life, don't over work your life, always work work work, spend you time in a stressful daily moment. Try to take a break, spend some time with your love one, your family, your friends, anyone as long you feel happy with it. In my case, I prefer to take a holiday.<br />
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What about the money? Some people feel so bad if they spend a lot of money to go to holiday, hey what's the point of busting your ass everyday to get money? TO MAKE A HAPPIER LIFE in you. You can find more money again tomorrow, but enjoy your life today.<br />
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Experience is important, you live only once in this beautiful world so enjoy it to the fullest.<br />
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Have a Great Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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ps: The picture is a scene in Symphony of Light in Hongkong<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-26387595009498569592012-09-18T01:20:00.000-07:002012-09-18T01:22:41.493-07:00Share it<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day? I pray for your success, healthy, and wealthy life..<br />
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A couple of days ago, I had a great conversation with my wife, we talked about the future of our life. We shared a lot of things about career, business, family, and vision. Suddenly I realized that it's been a long time since we had such conversation like this. Now, I know what my wife really want in our life, about the future, our kid, our business, our career, many things that I missed.<br />
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The next day I declared to my self that I want to make a change in my life to make my wife and my family happy or even happier. I changed my vision, my point of view, and my action. Time is the right thing that I need now, but in the end it will gain the benefit for my family.<br />
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<b>Have you ever share your vision, point of view, problem, and your dream to someone that you love or trust?</b><br />
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We as a human being is destined to life as a team, group, not as an individual in everywhere we live. In office, we need someone to make our job easier, in the family we need someone to run the house, in business we need someone to become a partner, in school we need someone to teach us, in community we need someone to accept us. Human being was created to make a conversation. That's the point to become a human.<br />
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Never hold your anger, sadness, problem, dream, happiness, and vision to someone you love. Tell them everything that you feel. If you hold it, it like a time bomb, once you fed up with it then BOOM explode, believe me the outcome always a mess.<br />
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So, why don't you try to share your feeling with someone else, ask for their advice, opinion, ask about their point of view about the future, make a healthy conversation, a conversation that will build you and them together. You can share to your wife, husband, best friend, son, daughter, co-worker, someone that you trust. Try it and you will feel the change that you need to make you become bigger, stronger, and happier.<br />
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Have a Sharing Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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I got the picture in the top pages from http://500px.com/photo/12073559 by Regina S<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-7851472994622200492012-09-07T01:30:00.000-07:002012-09-07T01:30:01.996-07:00Soup for Soul<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BZKUBVC0qH0/UEmv61VyP9I/AAAAAAAAASk/v9Z0CXOYPG0/s1600/Great+Scenery+6.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BZKUBVC0qH0/UEmv61VyP9I/AAAAAAAAASk/v9Z0CXOYPG0/s400/Great+Scenery+6.jpg" width="400" /></a><br />
Hey,<br />
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How's your day? I hope it's great and fabulous. I lost a project this week, kinda sad but it's okay. I learn many things from this. I just let it out and start to do a new project. <b>Remember you are not a loser if you lost, you are a loser if you stop trying.</b><br />
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Many things happen in our life, some good and memorable, some bad and still memorable hehehe. Sometimes we have a great deal of time to forget the bad one. It's a normal thing, our brain is a great piece of thing that control our body and mind. So <b>it's okay to have some bad memories, we can use it to remind us not to do the same mistake again.</b><br />
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If you experienced some bad thing in work, life, or in your career, it's okay. <strong>Growth requires pain.</strong> – Be patient and tough, someday
this pain will be useful to you. Those with the strength to succeed in
the long run are the ones who lay a firm foundation of growth with the
bricks that life has thrown at them. So don’t be afraid to fall apart
for a little while. Because when it happens, the situation will open an
opportunity for you to grow and rebuild yourself into the brilliant person you are capable of being.<br />
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<strong>You will learn as long as you live.</strong> – There is no stage
of life that does not contain new lessons. As long as you live there
will be something more to learn. And as long as you follow your heart
and never stop learning, you’ll turn not older, but newer every day. Why? because <strong>There is a positive lesson in every life experience.</strong> – Don’t forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your way. If you<span id="more-474"></span>
make a mistake that sets you back a little, or a business deal or a
relationship doesn’t work, it only means a new opportunity is out there
waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it.<br />
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<strong>Letting go is part of moving on to something better.</strong> –
You will not get what you truly deserve if you’re too attached to the
things you’re supposed to let go of. Sometimes you love, and you
struggle, and you learn, and you move on. And that’s okay. You must be
willing to let go of the life you planned for so you can enjoy the life
that is waiting for you. <br />
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You need to dig deeper into your strength, I always say improve your strength not your weakness, because you can find someone to cover your weakness while you become expert in your strength. <strong>Only you know what you’re capable of.</strong> – Unless someone
can look into the core of your heart, and see the degree of your
passion, or look into the depths of your soul and see the extent of your
will, then they have no business telling you what you can or cannot
achieve. Because while they may know the odds, they do not know YOU,
and what you’re capable of. That's something only you know.<br />
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Live happily, love endlessly. Why? <strong>Your love creates your happiness.</strong> – The happiness you
feel is in direct proportion to the love you give. When you love, you
subconsciously strive to become better than you are. When you strive to
become better than you are, everything around you becomes better too.
During your youth, love will be your teacher; in your middle age, love
will be your foundation; and in your old age, love will be your fondest
memories and your greatest delight<br />
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Choose your peer, surround your self with positive people. <strong>Negativity poisons the soul.</strong> – Don’t let needless drama
and negativity stop you from being the best you can be. Avoid the
drama, and focus on what truly matters. Life is insanely short and your
time is precious, so don’t waste your time on trivial matters. Let go
of the things that are weighing you down. As you uncluttered your life,
you will slowly free yourself to answer the callings of your inner
spirit.<br />
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<strong>Your choices design your life.</strong> – You have a choice each
and every single day. Choose to appreciate what you have. Choose to
make time for yourself. Choose to do something that makes you smile.
Choose to be excited. Choose to laugh at your own silliness. Choose to
spend time with positive people. Choose to be persistent with your
goals. Choose to try again and again. Within your choices lie all the
tools and resources you need to design the life of your dreams, it’s
just a matter of choosing wisely.<br />
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And always remember that <strong>This moment is a gift.</strong> – The truth is, your whole life
has been leading up to this moment. Think about that for a second.
Every single thing you’ve gone through in life, every high, every low,
and everything in between, has led you to this moment right now. This
moment is priceless, and it’s the only moment guaranteed to you. This
moment is your ‘life.’ Don’t miss it..<br />
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Have a Great Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0Jalan Kawasan Sudirman Central Bussines District, Jakarta Capital Region 12190, Indonesia-6.2266540667254366 106.81097030639648-6.2345465667254363 106.80109980639648 -6.218761566725437 106.82084080639649tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-66015809169794737382012-08-23T02:14:00.002-07:002012-08-23T02:14:12.267-07:00King's Speech<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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It's been a long time since I wrote my last blog, sorry for the inconvenience hehehe.. Happy Ied Mubarak for those who celebrated it.<br />
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Do you watch King's Speech? <br />
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<i><b>The King's Speech</b></i> is a 2010 British<span style="color: black;"> historical drama film</span><span style="color: black;"> directed by </span>Tom Hooper <span style="color: black;">and written by David Seidler</span><span style="color: black;">. Colin Firth </span><span style="color: black;">plays King George VI </span><span style="color: black;">who, to cope with a stammer</span><span style="color: black;">, sees Lionel Logue</span><span style="color: black;">, an Australian speech therapist </span><span style="color: black;">played by Geoffrey Rush. The movie was really great. I like it. We can see the struggle that happened in the life of King George VI to overcome his stammer problem.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I analyze three interesting point in the movie. It can change your organization or your life.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;"><b>First,</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: black;"><b>Change Happened if the leader want it to happen and do the act to make it happen.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: black;">In the movie, the leader was King George VI. You can see that He really want to overcome his weakness, the stammering thing, He really want to change and act to make it happen.</span><br />
<span style="color: black;"><b> </b>In life, if you want to have a different outcome, let say higher salary, top career, more income, expanding organization, have many branches of your company, create a synergy management, make a great team, then the first thing you must to do is <b>having a great deal of commitment </b>to make it happen. You are the leader of yourself, no one can make you sad without your permission, no one can insult you, you are you. </span><br />
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<b><span style="color: black;">Second,</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: black;">You need a right environment to change.</span></b><br />
<span style="color: black;">You can see that King George VI's wife was a supportive wife, she always support her husband to come to therapist to cure his stammer. She always by his side when he need her. King George VI's brother also make the right environment to support his brother to become a king. That's made King George had a bigger need to change. </span><br />
<span style="color: black;">In life, you need to <b>find a right environment that support you to achieve your dream</b>, be friend with many positive people, optimist, happy people, hard worker, dreamer, and achiever. Learn from them, have a discussion with them, and do the act to achieve your dream. Like I said before, if you want to fly high like an eagle then you need surround yourself with a pack of eagles not a pack of chicken.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;"><b>Third,</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: black;"><b>Find a right mentor to achieve your dream.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: black;">King's George VI choose </span><span style="color: black;">Lionel Logue as his therapist, Logue treated King George as his patient not as a king. King George still need to come to his place when it's the time to do the cure. Logue became his great mentor and his best friend. </span><br />
<span style="color: black;">In life, you need you need to <b>find a mentor or an expert to help you fly in the sky</b>. If you want to be an entrepreneur then find an great entrepreneur to become your mentor. If you want to be a CEO then find someone who will teach you to become a CEO or someone who will inspire you to become a CEO. Asking for any advice from this person and you will find your self in a right path to success.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">There's some of my opinion in this movie. It's a great movie, you need to watch it and please give me insight about the movie, maybe we can make a discussion about it.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Have a Great Day</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">-EZ </span><b><span style="color: black;"></span></b><br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-63858080188738857612012-08-08T21:41:00.000-07:002012-08-08T21:48:54.182-07:00Time is Precious<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day? Always happy and smile? no? why? you can tell me what happened in your life, maybe I can give you a solution or just a company in your life. Re-read my old entry in this blog, some of it can make you feel blessed.<br />
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Many of you watched the London 2012 Olympic right? if not then I want to tell you about something that make me think deep.<br />
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Couple of days ago, I watched the final of 100 M man's run. Some of the runner are Usain Bolt, Yohan Blake, Tyson Gay, and Justin Gatlin. I found this match really interesting, and an adrenalin pump. You can see some of the fastest human in the world.<br />
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As soon the referee cue to start the match, all of the runner ran fast, they pumped their leg as fast as they could. Near the end of the finish line, Usain Bolt suddenly run faster, it's like a car with a turbo and left the other runner.<br />
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The result, Usain Bolt won the gold medal with record time 9.63 and broke the Olympiad record. He left the second runner (Yohan Blake) with 0.12 time difference, but the one that made me amazed and had a deep thought was the time difference between the third winner (Justin Gatlin) and the fourth (Tyson Gay) is only 0.01 second. Can you imagine it? because 0.01 second Justin Gatlin got the bronze medal, because 0.01 second, Tyson Gay must put his dream to win a medal in this competition.<br />
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Time is a precious thing in this world, have you ever think how many second, minutes, hour, day, week, month, year, we spend in a useless things?<br />
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I want to make a new resolution, I won't spend time in a useless way, there's so many things that loss because I spend time in a useless way. Do you want to join me in this resolution?<br />
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Have a Great Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-4102477135180383202012-08-03T02:03:00.002-07:002012-08-03T02:04:46.701-07:00Give more then Get more<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day happy people? keep up the positivity and always smile. Remember once you smile it will give your soul a great feeling about happiness and actually hinder the sad feeling. Try it!! ; )<br />
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I have some new opportunity in this couple of days, some kinda feasible and some like "too good to be true" and it was too good to be true.I believe in "there's no free lunch" phrase in this world, If you want to get something then you need to do something.<br />
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If you want to get a decent job then you must do something to get the job, for example: study hard. If you want to get a new networking then you must make many friends, from one link to another link, you will find a great future business partner. If you want to get a new education then teach people, if you want to be happy then make other people happy, If you want money then you must give money to the needed one, it called "<a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/05/law-of-attraction.html" target="_blank">Law of Attraction</a>" The more you give the more you get.<br />
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I want to tell you an example about one men who give a lot and get a lot.<br />
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He was a president director in one of a financial company in Indonesia. His name is Ario, and I am amaze by his kindness to his colleagues in the office. He's an easy going person with a strict rule about professionalism. I interviewed some of his subordinates and I can see that He is a great person, He always give a big bonuses depends on the achievement of the subordinates, when there's an outing He also give a great deal of money for the accommodation. He also make the policy about 100 times salary bonuses in a year, WOW !!<br />
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Now He already left the office and start His own business. The best part was He never forget his old subordinates in the old office, last year He gave his ex-employees a great deal of money just for the wealth of his ex-employees, this year (2012), He gave his ex-employees each IDR 100 million from his company revenue.<br />
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I was hearing from the ex-employee the He prayed for Ario to go to heaven. What a wonderful pray, don't you agree? someone make a pray for you to go to heaven. Nowadays we hear "go to hell" more often than go to heaven.<br />
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And you know, He still rich and getting richer. That's what I called the more you give the more you get. When did the last time you give some money, food, or clothes to the needed one, poor one, orphan, the elderly, someone who need it?<br />
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Do you want to get rich? give more to the needed one, be nice to all the people, make a business, sell something, make other people rich, be positive, make a networking, make a difference, be unique, and pray.<br />
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Have a Giving Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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The Picture in the top was made by Ben Canales<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-25896638438836074322012-07-27T01:53:00.001-07:002012-07-27T01:53:27.735-07:00Happiness is the Source<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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I made and gathered some of daily happiness quotes to brighten your day and move your mindset in a positive direction.<br />
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<li>Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something<span id="more-471"></span> you design into the present. </li>
<li>If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, you do have a pretty big problem.</li>
<li>Sometimes life gives you two options: losing yourself or losing someone else. Regardless of the situation, don’t lose yourself.</li>
<li>In a world where you can be anything you want, BE YOURSELF.</li>
<li>Smile every chance you get. Not because life has been easy, perfect, or
exactly as you had anticipated, but because you choose to be happy and
grateful for all the good things you do have and all the problems you
know you don’t have.</li>
<li>A bad attitude is like a flat tire, you can’t get very far until you change it.</li>
<li>It’s nice to have money and the things that money can buy, but it’s also
important to make sure you haven’t lost track of the things that money
can’t buy.</li>
<li>You don’t need a lot of money to lead a rich life. Good friends and a loving family are worth their weight in gold. </li>
<li>Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that
gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it.
Just trust what you feel.</li>
<li>As long as you are worried about what others think of you, you are owned
by them. Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can
you own yourself.</li>
<li>Being kind to yourself in thoughts, words and actions is as important as being kind to others.</li>
<li>You are responsible for how you feel no matter what someone does to you.
Remember, you are always in control of your thoughts so choose to feel
confident and adequate rather than angry and insecure.</li>
<li>Don’t be afraid of change. Oftentimes you will lose something good, and then gain something even better.</li>
<li>You define your own life. Don’t let other people write your life’s story for you.</li>
<li>Life does NOT have to be perfect to be wonderful.</li>
<li>Worry is a massive waste of time and energy. It doesn’t change
anything. All it does is steal your joy and hinder your ability to make
positive changes.</li>
<li>If you want to be happy and bright, let go of your need to always be right.</li>
<li>The time spent on hating is the time lost for living a peaceful, happy
life. It is a habit that controls what you see, what you say, what you
do, and ultimately what you become.</li>
<li>Don’t make a decision based solely on popularity. Just because other
people are doing it doesn’t mean it’s the best choice for you.</li>
<li>Good things don’t come to those who wait. Good things come to those who pursue the goals and dreams they believe in.</li>
<li>Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there’s a dream, there
is hope, and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living.</li>
<li>What you believe has more power than what you dream or wish or hope for. You become what you believe.</li>
<li>Even though you cannot control everything that happens, you can control
your attitude toward what happens. And in that, you will be mastering
change rather than allowing it to master you.</li>
<li>Life will never be perfect, no matter how hard you try. Even if you
pour your heart and soul into it, you will never have that perfection
you seek. There will always be broken hearts, there will always be days
where nothing goes right. But you must accept and learn that even the
most imperfect things will always be made better with love and
laughter. </li>
<li>It’s not that everything will be easy or exactly as you had expected,
but you must just choose to be grateful for all that you have, and happy
that you got a chance to live this life, no matter how it turns out.</li>
<li>Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness</li>
<li>You look the best when you wear your smile. There is no beauty like the one that comes from inside you.</li>
<li>Sometimes you need to be alone to reflect on life. Take time out to take care of yourself. You deserve it.</li>
<li>It’s nice to have money and the things that money can buy, but it’s also
important to make sure you haven’t lost track of the things that money
can’t buy.</li>
<li><b>Life is not about making others happy. Life is about sharing your happiness with others.</b></li>
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Do you get the point? please read it slowly and remember it, feel it with your heart. Believe me Happiness is the only source for you to make a life.<br />
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Have a Happy Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-48187965997715582012012-07-23T02:09:00.000-07:002012-07-23T02:09:28.306-07:00Easy to Communicate 4<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day? Start your day with a smile and end your day with a smile, life is happiness : )<br />
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I want to tell you about the last part of easy communicate. The last part is part of visual, it called Body Language. Believe me, body language can determined whether you are confident or want to disappear from the crowd. Use the right body language when you're communicating with someone else.<br />
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Some of the weak body language, biting and picking your nails is always weak. fidgeting, putting hands in pockets, rubbing arms, touching legs, stick thumb inside of closed fist, whenever you notice this stuff happening - Stop it!!<br />
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Some of the confident body language, palms pointed towards each other like you're holding a basketball, fingertip to fingertip, thumb outside of closed fist, flashing your wrist and showing palms to people.<br />
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Knowing which side of a person's body is more comfortable for them, and which side makes them uneasy, can make a really effective body language. Always start by putting on your good side for 30 seconds to 2 minutes to determine is it compatible, then put the person on your negative side and see how they change. Observe how a person acts around others to figure out their side.<br />
Good side cues: <br />
<ul>
<li>Normal tone of voice</li>
<li>No additional filler words like ummm, errr, etc</li>
<li>Three power zone are open (Throat, Belly button, and lower body)</li>
</ul>
Remember some of this step to approach people:<br />
<ul>
<li>Ensure a strong introduction, make other person remember you name, introduce using the pause, punch, pause, punch method of " Hello, my name is ... Emir ... Zakiar." Don't forget to smile.</li>
<li>Treat everyone with respect - don't talk down to anyone</li>
<li>Make the connection genuine, take your time.</li>
<li>Get them talking - ask open ended question and get them talking. </li>
<li>Be and informant - share something personal about yourself - be up front and honest about whatever situation they are about to be in (If possible).</li>
<li>Use touch carefully and only when you are making a positive point, just a little touch but remember not every person want to get touch.</li>
<li>Nod attentively, just enough to make them know that you are interest with their story.</li>
<li>Be adaptable</li>
<li>Keep moving - depending on the situation, keep people moving at round and seeing different places with you - the environment changes give them more memories and seem to know you more - as if you were friends longer.</li>
</ul>
There's a lot of body language that you can learn, email me for some of the detail.<br />
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That's all the simple way to communicate with a stranger or with someone you know. Try to learn it and use it in everyday life, if you're afraid when approaching someone then use this simple method:<br />
Tactical breathing:<br />
<ol>
<li>Breath in nose for 4 count, filling lower belly.</li>
<li>Hold breath for 4 seconds.</li>
<li>Exhale through whistle like lips for 4 counts.</li>
<li>Say in your mind "I'm Great" 5 times.</li>
<li>Hold your breath for a count of 4 and repeat it for 4 sets</li>
</ol>
Communication is one of the crucial part of everyday life, in terms of education, family, lifestyle, business, marketing, sales, teaching, talking, doing speech, buying, selling, many things. So why you're afraid of communicating with others?<br />
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Have a Communicating Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-46332375922341098342012-07-17T02:08:00.002-07:002012-07-17T02:08:57.958-07:00Easy to Communicate 3<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's your day, I hope it full of happiness.. Always smile to start and when you want to end the day. It help you ease the trouble in your heart.<br />
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I want to continue about the communication skill that I already wrote in this blog. The next thing you need to apply when you communicate is your vocal.<br />
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Vocal play a big part in terms of communicate with other people, sometimes misunderstanding happens because of the different intonation we use when talking to other people. Have you ever talked to someone who you adore but suddenly you fell the person is a jackass because He or She using an arrogant intonation to you?<br />
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Try this simple exercise, you just need to stand in a mirror and say "You drive me crazy" <br />
use that phrase but with different intonation:<br />
<ol>
<li>Angry</li>
<li>Brave</li>
<li>Happy</li>
<li>Humble</li>
<li>Calm</li>
</ol>
Can you spot the difference between one and another intonation?<br />
Can you also notice how your body changed for each attitude? How our voice altered each time you changed your attitude? When you adjust your attitude round other people, they pick up the same feelings you have and begin to experience them for themselves. How much sense does it make to be angry or impatient when you want to make a good first impression? How much better to be excited or warm?<br />
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Your intonation make your body react exactly like your intonation. Can you imagine when you want to make a conversation but ended up fail because you are using the wrong intonation? What a loss.<br />
Use the right intonation with different person, if the person you're having a conversation is someone who talked slowly then try to talk slowly, get along with the rhythm.When the person talk fast, try to adjust your conversation with a fast one. This trick can make the person feel the bound between Him/Her to you.<br />
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Learn and practice your intonation, let me know if you want to ask something. I hope I can make you learn and make you a good communicator.<br />
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Have a Communicate Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-47071488557278763502012-07-12T02:02:00.000-07:002012-07-12T02:02:42.245-07:00Easy to Communicate 2<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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It's quite a long time since the last I made a post. Really sorry, it's because I had some project and I'm so blessed that the project run smoothly. Thanks to God for this project.<br />
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So what's about your self? do you have a great time in this couple of days? I hope so, I pray for your happiness.<br />
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I want to talk about the first thing you need to know about "Easy to communicate". The first thing you need to know in order to initiate a conversation is "<b>What do you want to know?</b>"<br />
What do you want to know from the one you make conversation with, is it about work, about traveling, about having fun, about family, about new opportunity, about education, anything. But you need to know what is the subject of the conversation.<br />
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If you have a hard time initiating the first step, then I have some tricks to do:<br />
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<ol>
<li><b>Smile </b>while you approaching the person you want to have a conversation. Make an open body language, it will make them see that you mean no harm to them. This is the most important thing. In here, the person will make a quick judgment about yourself whether you're a good person or a bad person.</li>
<li><b>Ask about something general</b>, like weather, time, matchstick (if you're a smoker), the more general the subject then the more easy to initiate a conversation. You will need this to break the ice between you and Him/Her/Them.</li>
<li>After you ask the general subject, the next step you can ask about the "<b>What do you want to Know" </b>You must ask first, and let them speak more. Use this "5W1H rule" For example:</li>
<ul>
<li>You are an owner of an Italian restaurant in a busy street around the business district. Because you are a new player in that location, you want to know how the customer think with the food and the concept of the restaurant. You can smile and say "Hi I am .......... (put your name in here), I am the owner of this restaurant and I want to make a short and simple questionnaire from you:</li>
<ul>
<li>What do you think about the concept of the restaurant? </li>
<li>Where do you usually go out?</li>
<li>Why you choose this menu? </li>
<li>When did the last time you eat a great Italian food?</li>
<li>How did the food taste? Do you like it?</li>
</ul>
</ul>
</ol>
Do you recognize in here that I don't use "Who" above. You need to be flexible when comes to conversation, Don't be to strict with the rule, it's only a tool to make you easy to initiate a conversation. Remember don't push the person with some difficult question that can make them feel uncomfortable.<br />
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4. <b>Make them talk by asking question</b>, Conversation is like playing tennis, you hit the ball and the other person will hit it back. Make this one of the rule in conversation. If you see that the person you ask seems not comfortable then you can say, "it's nice to having a little chat with you" then find another person to have a new conversation.<br />
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Try the tricks above, practice it, and make the action with it. I mean try to initiate a conversation with other person, for the first time you can have a conversation with someone you know, then after that you can try to have initiate a conversation with a stranger or your boss.<br />
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We all the human, don't be afraid when it comes to initiate a conversation, if you have a hard time talking to your superior, try to imagine that the superior is wearing an informal clothes. Say "I'm Great" five times in your thought and smile.<br />
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In the next post, I will tell you the next step to make an easy communication. <br />
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Have a Training Day<br />
-EZ <br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-28384952915704031222012-07-06T02:05:00.001-07:002012-07-06T02:05:50.732-07:00Easy to Communicate<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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Do you know that study tell 70% of mistake in workplace are direct result of poor communication? a lot of people have a great deal difficulties when comes to communicate with others. I have a friend who really smart and have a deep analysis with His subject but have a bad communication, he hardly tell his boss about his idea. Because He's afraid to communicate, he didn't tell his boss about the idea. Do you have a friend like this?<br />
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Everything we do is communication, you want to buy groceries, you want to ask your teacher, pay for ticket parking, asking for money, have fun with friends, chatting with your family, meeting with business partner, talking to your children, even when you make love with your love ones hehehe<br />
So why many people seems like being dragged to hell when it come to communicate in front of people?<br />
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Cause of communication difficulties are:<br />
<ul>
<li>Lack of information and knowledge</li>
<li>Not explaining priorities or goals properly</li>
<li>Not Listening</li>
<li>Not understand fully and fail to ask question</li>
<li>Mind made up, preconceived ideas </li>
<li>Not understand others' needs</li>
<li>Not thinking clearly, jumping into conclusion</li>
<li>Bad mood</li>
<li>Failure to explore alternatives</li>
</ul>
Do you know what will happen if fail to communicate?<br />
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<ul>
<li>Loss of business</li>
<li>Mistake cause inefficiencies </li>
<li>Lowered productivity</li>
<li>Poor coordination and cooperation</li>
<li>Damaged personal or company image</li>
<li>Frustation and can make hostility</li>
<li>Dissatisfaction to others</li>
<li>Lowered morale</li>
<li>Loss of team spirits</li>
<li>Conflict and argument</li>
<li>Loss of Friendship</li>
</ul>
I have two friend that used to be best friends, two woman with spirit like "best friends forever", but because of failure in communicate between each others now they become hostile towards each others. It so sad, and it happened because of miss-communication.<br />
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Communication is two-way street, we have to give as well as gather. Don't forget, we communicate to get information, motivate, give advice, chatting, greet, sell, praise etc.<br />
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So try to learn how to communicate easily, communication consist of three basic things:<br />
<ol>
<li>Verbal, The massage that we deliver. We must have a clear information about what we want to deliver. Is it about business, traveling, education, happiness, etc</li>
<li>Vocal, The voice that we convey, people tend to hear the voice intonation then the massage. Try to say I'm Hungry in different kind of mood (Happy, Sad, Angry, etc) You will find the difference between intonation</li>
<li>Visual, Our body language, Believe me, this is the most important things in communication. Almost 80% people make a judgment by it's cover. Even though it's wrong but we live in this kind of world so adapt to it or vanished. Using a fit clothes, clean shoes, nice hair, some perfume, brighter face, smile (this is really important), and you can become a chameleon in here. After that using a good body language to get the attention.</li>
</ol>
Pay attention with this three basic communication skills, I will tell you how we communicate easily in some next post in here, so better subscribe to my blog, I assure you this information can make you become a better communicator. And Hey, being able to communicate easily with other people is really fun : )<br />
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O yeah I have a post also about communication in <a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/01/communication.html" target="_blank">here</a> and <a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/02/communicate.html" target="_blank">here</a><br />
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Have a Great Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0Jalan Kawasan Sudirman Central Bussines District, Jakarta Capital Region 12190, Indonesia-6.2285311988545127 106.80972576141357-6.2324771988545127 106.80479026141357 -6.2245851988545127 106.81466126141358tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070499080612250955.post-1355086556449526102012-07-03T02:58:00.001-07:002012-07-03T02:58:43.944-07:00Brainstorming not Debating<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hey,<br />
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How's life? I hope it's great and full of Happiness. We live to be happy, right? I have a great business going on now, I make a business strategic for a new company in Indonesia. I move along with my passion in strategic and marketing. Do you move along with your passion?<br />
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I want to talk about brainstorming, do you know what kind of creature is it? Brain storming is a way to solve a problem, we share our thought with people in the team about solving the problem. Brainstorming is a process for developing creative solutions to problems. Brainstorming works by focusing on a problem, and then deliberately
coming up with as many solutions as possible and by pushing the ideas as
far as possible. One of the reasons it is so effective is that the
brainstormers not only come up with new ideas in a session, but also <b> spark off </b> from associations with other people's ideas by developing and refining them. In here we learned to say what we think and learn to know new knowledge.<br />
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There are four basic rules in brainstorming (Osborn, 1963) intended
to reduce social inhibitions among team members, stimulate idea
generation, and increase overall creativity:<br />
<ul>
<li><strong>No criticism</strong>: Criticism of ideas are withheld
during the brainstorming session as the purpose is on generating varied
and unusual ideals and extending or adding to these ideas. Criticism is
reserved for the evaluation stage of the the process. This allows the
members to feel comfortable with the idea of generating unusual ideas.</li>
<li><strong>Welcome unusual ideas</strong>: Unusual ideas are welcomed
as it is normally easier to "tame down" than to "tame up" as new ways of
thinking and looking at the world may provide better solutions.</li>
<li><strong>Quantity Wanted</strong>: The greater the number of ideas generated, the greater the chance of producing a radical and effective solution.</li>
<li><strong>Combine and improve ideas</strong>: Not only are a variety of ideals wanted, but also ways to combine ideas in order to make them better.</li>
</ul>
why new knowledge?<br />
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This is the difference between brainstorming and debating. In brainstorming, we tend to learn many thing from the team or the people to solve the problem. We can give our thought about something and we can get new knowledge from others. In debating, we tend to win the subject without solving the problem. A lot of debating only shows the ego of the speaker, they only tell the good one and reject any advice from the other speaker, it a shame. You won't get anything from debating, trust me.<br />
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Brainstorming can be useful not only in business, you can do brainstorming in family circle (for example, choose the next holiday place, you can have a brainstorming with your wife, husband, son, daughter, parents), you can do brainstorming with your friends (for example, choosing where you want to hangout in the next Saturday night). You can solve many things from brainstorming. People who like to do a brainstorming have a <a href="http://emirzakiar.blogspot.com/2012/05/growth-mindset.html" target="_blank">growth mindset</a>. When did the last time you have a brainstorming with your peer, partner, boss, friends, family? <br />
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Your life can be much better if you can solve many problem that happen in your life. Brainstorming is one of the tools to make it easier when you want to solve a problem or many problems. Put aside your ego and try to learn new things.<br />
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Have a Brainstorming Day<br />
-EZ<br />
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Waiting for Your Comment and InsightEmir Zakiarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711658792141391308noreply@blogger.com0