Habit You Need to Get Rid

Hey,

Every one want to be a successful person, I want it and I bet you want it too, but do we ever get rid some habit that makes us go far away from the word "success"? this question makes you think about the things that we often do and it actually make us going far away from success.

When we think about how to achieve success, we often focus on the skills and habits we should add to our lives.  But sometimes the key to success actually lies in our ability to give up certain habits and behaviors. The habits you need to give up are:

Waiting. – The way you spend your time defines who you are.  You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when; you can only decide how you are going to live right now.  Trust me, a year from now you will wish you had started today. So, start your success life today and don't hesitated to move along with your dream.

Excuses. – Many times we make an excuse when we must do something, worse if we want to achieve our dream. Sooner or later you will come to realize that it’s not what you lose along the way that counts; it’s what you do with what you still have.  When you let go, forgive, and move on, you in no way change the past, you change the future.

Doing things you know are wrong. – Nothing is more damaging to you than doing something that you believe is wrong.  Your beliefs alone don’t help you grow and thrive, your behavior and actions do.  So always do what you know in your heart is right, for you.

Worrying about past failures. – Accept your past without regret, handle your presence with confidence, and face your future without fear.  You are today where your thoughts and actions have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts and actions take you. Remember failure is good for you to learn a lot of new things.

Blaming everyone else. – Either you own your situation or it will own you.  Either you take responsibility for your life, or someone else will.  Blame is a scapegoat – it’s an easy way out of taking accountability for your own outcome.  It’s a lot easier to point the finger at someone or something else instead of looking within.  Blame is not constructive; it does not help you or anyone else – nobody wins in the blame game.  The amount of energy and stress it takes to place blame elsewhere takes away from your ability to move forward and find a real solution.

Letting others decide what you can and can’t do. – In order to live your own authentic life, you have to follow YOUR inner heart, not someone else's.  When others say, “You can’t do it!” or “That’s impossible,” don’t lose hope.  Just because they couldn’t doesn’t mean you can’t. You are not a loser if you lost, You are a loser if you give up.

It's your life anyway no one can steer the car that you rode, you must be the one that make the ride full of enjoyment. Drive your dream like you drive your car, it pointed to a direction, if you don't have direction then you only driving along until running out of gas in the middle of nowhere.

Have a Happy Day
-EZ


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