Hey,
How's your day? do you spend it in a positive mindset or negative mindset? I hope in positive mindset, because I already told you that our mind is our future. If you want to be success then have a success mind, let your pathetic mind go away.
I have a friend that always look for a brighter side in his problem, he always look so energetic and full of vision plus he do some action to achieve his dream not just talking like many people nowadays. I like to talk to many people, success people, broken people, bad people, good people, many types of characteristics. Do you know what is one of the most obstacle that can make you go far away from your dream? It's TOLERANCE. wow, wait what? Emir, our parents teach us to be a tolerate person, yeah I know, my parents also taught me that. Do you want to know what kind of tolerance that can make your dream *poof* and fly away with other people dream?
Let me tell you some tolerance that you must rid in order to achieve your dream. You must stop tolerating:
Your own negativity. – Be aware of your mental self-talk. We all talk silently to ourselves in our heads, but we aren’t always conscious of what we’re saying or how it’s affecting us. Start listening to your thoughts. If you hear negative thoughts, stop and replace them with positive thoughts.
People who bring you down. – Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded.
Unnecessary miscommunication. – Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Speak clearly. Ask questions. Clarify things until you understand them.
Fear of change. – Life is change. Every day is different. Every day is a new beginning and a new ending. Embrace it and make the best of it.
All work and no play. – Enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can. If you’re smiling, you’re doing something right.
Doing the same exact thing over and over again. – You are the sum of your life experiences. The more you experience, the more interesting your life story gets.
Infidelity. – Intimate relationships are a sacred bond – a circle of trust. If both parties aren’t 100% onboard the relationship isn’t worth fighting for.
An unsafe home. – If you don’t feel safe at home you’ll never feel safe anywhere. Build a loving household in a safe area that you are proud to call ‘home.’
Being unprepared. – Life is unpredictable. And there’s a big difference between being scared and being prepared. Always be prepared.
A work environment or career field you hate. – Don’t settle on the first or second career field you dabble in. Keep searching. Eventually you will find work you love to do. If you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop. You’re on to something big. Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions.
Inaction. – Either you’re going to take action and seize new opportunities or someone else will. You can’t change anything or make any sort of progress by sitting back and thinking about it.
This kind of tolerance that you need to get rid in your life. Tell me, I believe some of you are having a big tolerance of one or more from the list above, be honest with yourself hehehe.
So do your best to achieve your dream, I will do my best so we can see each others in the future with our own dreams together.
Have a Happy Day
-EZ
Waiting for Your Comment and Insight
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