Get Rid that Tolerance

Hey,

How's your day? do you spend it in a positive mindset or negative mindset? I hope in positive mindset, because I already told you that our mind is our future. If you want to be success then have a success mind, let your pathetic mind go away.

I have a friend that always look for a brighter side in his problem, he always look so energetic and full of vision plus he do some action to achieve his dream not just talking like many people nowadays. I like to talk to many people, success people, broken people, bad people, good people, many types of characteristics. Do you know what is one of the most obstacle that can make you go far away from your dream? It's TOLERANCE. wow, wait what? Emir, our parents teach us to be a tolerate person, yeah I know, my parents also taught me that. Do you want to know what kind of tolerance that can make your dream *poof* and fly away with other people dream?

Let me tell you some tolerance that you must rid in order to achieve your dream. You must stop tolerating:

Your own negativity. – Be aware of your mental self-talk.  We all talk silently to ourselves in our heads, but we aren’t always conscious of what we’re saying or how it’s affecting us.  Start listening to your thoughts.  If you hear negative thoughts, stop and replace them with positive thoughts.

People who bring you down. – Relationships should help you, not hurt you.  Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded.

Unnecessary miscommunication. – Say what you mean.  Mean what you say.  Speak clearly.  Ask questions.  Clarify things until you understand them.

Fear of change. – Life is change.  Every day is different.  Every day is a new beginning and a new ending.  Embrace it and make the best of it.

All work and no play. – Enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can.  If you’re smiling, you’re doing something right.

Doing the same exact thing over and over again. – You are the sum of your life experiences.  The more you experience, the more interesting your life story gets.

Infidelity. – Intimate relationships are a sacred bond – a circle of trust.  If both parties aren’t 100% onboard the relationship isn’t worth fighting for.

An unsafe home. – If you don’t feel safe at home you’ll never feel safe anywhere.  Build a loving household in a safe area that you are proud to call ‘home.’

Being unprepared. – Life is unpredictable.  And there’s a big difference between being scared and being prepared.  Always be prepared.

A work environment or career field you hate. – Don’t settle on the first or second career field you dabble in.  Keep searching.  Eventually you will find work you love to do.  If you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop.  You’re on to something big.  Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions.

Inaction. – Either you’re going to take action and seize new opportunities or someone else will.  You can’t change anything or make any sort of progress by sitting back and thinking about it.

This kind of tolerance that you need to get rid in your life. Tell me, I believe some of you are having a big tolerance of one or more from the list above, be honest with yourself hehehe.

So do your best to achieve your dream, I will do my best so we can see each others in the future with our own dreams together.

Have a Happy Day
-EZ


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Talked to Stranger

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Have you ever talked to a stranger? I had, at first it's kinda hard to do and a little bit awkward but after a couple of times it feels easy. I always think that opportunity comes in every way and stranger in here not only someone that you don't know but some one that you already know and you have a hard time to talk to them. In example your director, your boss, your company's owner, your crush, your parent's friends, someone at the wedding, a new potential business partner, anyone.

Let’s face it, fewer moments are more awkward than trying to strike up a casual conversation with someone you don’t know very well.  Here are some quick tips to lighten up the situation:

1. Talk about who you know and what you have in common.  Mutual friends, bosses, hometowns, etc.
2. Ask relevant questions about life, work, hobbies, and pop-culture.  Keeping abreast of current events will provide you with great conversation builders.  Lead with “What do you think of…?”, “Have you heard…?”, “What is your take on…?”, etc.  Stay away from negative or controversial topics, and refrain from long-winded stories.
3. If you notice yourself getting bored with what you’re saying, stop talking, acknowledge the situation, and move on to the next topic. Don't try to stick with the topic, it's usually happens when you try to sell something to the person.
4. Listen more than you talk, you can find some hints about the interesting topics that the strangers like to say.
5. With people you have never met before, limit stories to the last few moments of your life.  Bring up casual points about your current surroundings, like the funny music playing in the background or the tasty martinis the bar is serving.
6. Know a few interesting historical fact, like this one:  As a child, Albert Einstein seldom spoke.  When he did, he spoke very slowly – indeed, he tried out entire sentences in his head until he got them right before he spoke aloud.  Einstein did this until he was nine years old.  His parents were worried about his lack of talking.  But at last, at the supper table one night, he broke his silence to say, “The soup is too hot!”  Greatly relieved, his parents asked why he had never said a word before.  Albert replied, “Because up to now everything was in order.”
7. But realize that no one likes a person who thinks they know everything.
8. Prolonged pauses are the best time for that interesting historical fact.  Most people would rather listen to you talk about anything than listen to an awkward silence.
9. Watch your body language  People who look ill at ease make others uncomfortable.  Act confident and comfortable, even when you’re not.
10. Let strangers interrupt you.  They’re not being rude, they’re assisting you.  Let them speak, and wait to be prompted before continuing your story.  It’s usually a good sign that they are actually listening to you.
11. If all else fails, just talk about the weather, which always gets people riled up.Tell them how hot today, or how rainy today. Weather can be a great ice breaker in conversation.
12. And have a few exit lines ready so, if needs be, you can both gracefully move on.  For example, “I need to check in with a client over there,” “I skipped lunch today, so I need to grab a quick bite,” etc.

As long as you avoid anything personal, political (some people really avoid it) but if the political issue is a common things to talk about in your area then it's okay, or controversial – at least during first encounters – and know which questions to ask, you’ll be talking the talk of certified socialite.  Also, read Dale Carnegie’s classic, How To Win Friends and Influence People, for a great read on this topic.

Try it, you will amaze with the outcomes.

Have a Communicating Day
-EZ

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Thought that can Change Your lIfe

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What are you thinking is what will you get? do you believe in this? I believe. Why? because our strength lay in our mind. If you think that you are weak then you are weak, if you think that you are gonna be a rich person, then with some action you can be a rich person. If you think that you won't gonna make it then you will fail, but if you think you will get it then you win. read about his thing in my post Never Give Up you will feel the differences.

Here are some of provoking thought that you can read and think deep inside, not too serious but keep it simple to achieve it.

1. You cannot change what you refuse to confront.
2. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
3. Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, Soekarno etc
4. If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.
5. You can learn great things from your mistakes when you aren’t busy denying them.
6. Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.
7. You will never become who you want to be if you keep blaming everyone else for who you are now.
8. Don’t listen to what people say, watch what they do.
9. Don’t think of cost.  Think of value.
10. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
11. Be happy.  Be yourself.  If others don’t like it, then let them be.  Happiness is a choice.  Life isn’t about pleasing everybody.
12. Learn to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you.
13. Love and appreciate your parents.  We are often so busy growing up, we forget they are also growing old.
14. If you don’t like something, change it.  If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.
15. What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
16. If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past.  If you lie, it becomes a part of your future.
17. Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around you, but rather what’s happening inside you.  Most people depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is, it always comes from within.
18. It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder.
19. You don’t drown by falling in the water.  You drown by staying there.Learn to appreciate the things you have before time forces you appreciate the things you once had.
20. No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life.  Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs.

 Here's some of the thought that worth thinking. Be a great person, put it deep in your mind. Believe me If you think you can do it then you can do it

What You think you will become, so think about the positive things you will become a positive person -Emir Zakiar

Have a Great Day
-EZ

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Good Tought for A Bad Day

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How's your day? I have a wonderful day. Not to brag but I feel so happy with my life. Many things happened in my life some good and some bad. It's a common to have a bad day, the way we overcome it what make us a great man or great women. I already told you that everything revolve in our head, it's all in the mindset.

If you want to be happy then be happy, why wait? I have some trick to make your bad day become a good day by overwhelming your mindset. Here it goes:

We are all in this together. – Nobody has it easy, we all have issues.  When you look at a person, any person, remember that everyone has a story.  Everyone has gone through something that has changed them, and forced them to grow.  Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours.  You will never know exactly what they are going through, and they will never know exactly what you are going through.  We are all fighting our own unique war.  But we are fighting through it simultaneously, together.

Tough times help us grow. – We work hard to disown the parts of our lives that were painful, difficult, or sad.  But just as we can’t rip chapters out of a book and expect the story to still make sense, so we cannot rip past chapters out of our lives and expect our lives to still make sense.  Keep every chapter of your life intact, and keep on turning the pages.  Sooner or later you’ll get to a page that brings it all together and you’ll suddenly understand why every page and chapter before it was needed.

No matter what, you have a purpose. – Having a bad day?  It’s okay.  Put your hand on your heart.  Feel that?  That’s called ‘purpose.’  You’re alive for a reason.  Don’t give up.  You may lose the people you love.  You may lose the things you have.  But no matter happens, never lose yourself.

You don’t always have to be happy and cheerful. – Sometimes you have to deal with issues and show others your uncomfortable side.  It’s perfectly okay – it’s a natural part of being human.  And the good news is that these tough moments will often show you who will accept you at your worst and who won’t.

You aren’t supposed to be perfect. – Live life.  Experience everything.  Take care of yourself and those closest to you.  Have fun – be a little crazy and weird.  Go out and make mistakes – you’re going to anyway.  Enjoy yourself, and exploit the countless opportunities to learn something along the way.  Figure out what works and what doesn’t.  Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human and being YOU.

There's a reasons to smile and it's all around you. When I see a beggar having fun with her child - I smile, when I see a man having a chat and laughing out load with his friends - I smile, When I see my son laughing when playing with his toy - I smile, many things can make you smile. On days when you don’t have much in your life to smile about, watch those who do and You will smile too.

Right now is a fresh start. – Talk about your blessings more than you talk about your problems.  It’s a bright new day – a new beginning.  Your future is too bright to waste it fighting needless battles with old issues from the past.

So I hope some tricks that I wrote can make your mindset act more positive. We live to be a happy person and make others happy. So why so sad?

Have a Happy Day
-EZ

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Be an Optimist Person

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Do you know what is optimist? An Optimist is a person with a positive outlook on life. The contra of optimist  is pessimist, Pessimism is a state of mind in which one anticipates negative outcomes.You can see from the translation, one is positive and another one is negative. Optimist have a positive mind and pessimist have a negative mind. Which person are you?

We need to be an optimist person, why? because we live in this world to spread the positivity to others. You can imagine a world with many positive things, if all the people is an optimist person then there will be no poverty, why? because poor people will show optimist attitude to overcome their poverty, they will find a way to have an income and keep their optimist attitude flowing in their vein.

Some people are more optimistic by nature, but optimism is not a fixed attribute.  It’s a choice we have control over.  Every morning, we either choose to wake up grumpy or wake up with a positive outlook.  Research has shown that, in the long run, optimistic people handle stress better, get sick less often, live longer, and are happier and more successful than their pessimistic counterparts.

I have some trick to make you an optimist person, I hope it will help, and I hope you try it so you can feel the positive energy flowing in your life.

Find the opportunity in every difficulty.
‘Optimist’ is a word which here refers to a person who focuses on the positive.  For instance, if an optimist lost her left arm in a car accident, she might say in a hopeful voice, “I’m alive.  I don’t have my left arm anymore, but I do have my right one, and my life still to live.”
Optimism does not mean ignoring the problem entirely; it means understanding that setbacks are inevitable, often temporary, and that you have the skills and abilities to combat the challenges you face.  What you are dealing with may be difficult, but it is important to remain hopeful and positive about a brighter future.  Optimism will inspire a sense of hopefulness and the confidence that is required to take full advantage of the opportunities that do exist.  Remember, the most beautiful rainbows come from the sunlight after a very dark storm. 

Surround yourself with positive people.
You are only as good as the company you keep.  If you’re around gloomy people, there’s a good chance you won’t to be smiling.  Make it your mission to dodge negativity.  Surround yourself with supportive friends who have positive outlooks.  As they say, if you want to soar with the eagles, you have to stop hanging out with the ducks.
Optimism is a learned habit, and it is positively contagious.  Surround yourself with people who could infect you with positivity.  In turn pass your new good mood on to a friend or stranger in words and deed – let somebody have that parking space, let that person with only a few items cut in front of you at the market.  The simple act of doing something nice for others is actually a good pick-me-up all by itself.

Be realistic, and expect ups and downs.
Trying to be 100% positive all the time is wanting to be an ocean in which waves only rise up and never come crashing down.  However, when we recognize that the rising and crashing waves are part of the same one ocean, we are able to let go and be at peace with the way things are.
Bottom line:  Prepare for the worst but hope for the best – the former makes you sensible, and the latter makes you an optimist.

Inspire yourself with a smile and positive reminders.
If you expect the worst, the worst will happen.  If you let things bother you, they will.  But if you smile, you’ll feel better.  Studies have shown that putting a cheerful smile on your face can trigger a part of your brain that actually makes you feel happier and more optimistic about the present and future.
Also, feed your optimism with positive reminders.  Write down short statements that inspire optimism.  Put them in places where you’ll see them every day, such as on your bathroom mirror, the inside of your locker, and on your computer monitor.

• “Anything is possible.”
• “Lead a life of positivity.”
• “The only thing I can control is my attitude towards life.”
• “I always have a choice.”
• “Even the longest journey begins with a single step.”
• “I will look at the sunny side of everything and make my optimism shine.”

Smile and Count Your Blessing
You can see in your self that you are actually pretty lucky, you can read this post is a sign that you have some money to buy a hand phone, buy a PC, have an internet connection, and the real deal is you can read. A lot of people in this world actually can't read. Can you imagine how lucky you are.
Smile often, it can boost your mood. Have you ever so angry and sad? next time when you're angry or sad, try to smile. You will feel much better, trust me. I already did it and always do it.

Focus on the present.
People often obsess themselves with the past and the future.  But life is happening right now.  You can’t learn something or remember something that’s happening now if your mind is stuck in another time. It takes about eight seconds of intense focus to process a new piece of information into your long-term memory.  So don’t let your life and your mind slip away.  Instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, practice being and living in the present moment.  Remember, right now is the only moment guaranteed to you.  Right now is life.

Listen to A Good Damn Music
Listen to the music that can boost up your emotion. Not only listen to them but try to comprehend every single lyric in there. Some pump up music can boost up your spirit. When your spirit of life seems diminish, listen to a pump up music, not slow music, or sad music. Listen to mood booster music and your emotion will lift up again.


Life is great, surround your self with optimist attitude and positive attitude so you can be a great person in life. I'm not telling you it's gonna be easy, but i ASSURE YOU IT'S GONNA BE WORTH IT.

A pessimist see every difficulties in every opportunities, an optimist see every opportunities in every difficulties - Winston Churchill

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Never Quit

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I read many success story from a lot of success person in the world, I found some of their habits that exactly the same habit to success. One of habit that every successful person have is Never Quit to achieve their dream.

Do you know, if Howard Schultz gave up after being turned down by banks 242 times, there would be no

Schultz learned the importance of determination. “So many times I have been told that it can’t be done. Again and again, I’ve had to use every ounce of perseverance to make it happen.”
Under Schultz’s leadership, Starbucks went from a handful of stores in Seattle to more than 15,000 stores and 150,000 employees. Today, Starbucks coffeehouses are in 43 countries. After stepping away from day-to-day operations and serving as chairman of the board for seven years, Schultz returned to the chief executive’s position in January and began unveiling his vision for an even brighter Starbucks future.

Do you know, if J.K. Rowling stopped after being turned sown by multiple publishers for years, there would be no

Rowling may be rolling in a lot of Harry Potter dough today, but before she published the series of novels she was nearly penniless, severely depressed, divorced, trying to raise a child on her own while attending school and writing a novel. Rowling went from depending on welfare to survive to being one of the richest women in the world in a span of only five years through her hard work and determination.

Do you know,  If Walt Disney quit too soon after his theme park concept was trashed 302 times, there would be no

Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas." He went bankrupt several times before he built Disneyland. In fact, the proposed park was rejected by the city of Anaheim on the grounds that it would only attract riffraff.

Do you know, If Colonel Sanders give up His effort after getting refused by 1009 times before he got his first yes, there will be no

How did Colonel Sanders become such an unbelievable success? Was it because he was born wealthy? Was his family rich? Did they send him to a top university like Harvard? Maybe he was successful because he started his business when he was really young. Are any of these true?
The answer is no. Colonel Sanders didn't begin to fulfill his dream until he was 65 years old! What drove him to finally take action? He was broke and alone. He got his first social security cheque for $105, and he got mad but instead of blaming society or just writing congress a nasty note, he started asking himself, "What could I do that would be valuable for other people? What could I give back?" He started thinking about what he had that was valuable to others.

He spent two years driving across America in his old, beat-up car, sleeping in the back seat in his rumpled white suit, getting up each day eager to share his idea with someone new. Often, the only food he had was a quick bite of the samples he was preparing for perspective buyers. How many people do you think would have gone for 1,009 no's - two years of no's! - and kept on going? Very few. That's why there is only one Colonel Sanders. I think most people wouldn't get passed twenty no's, much less a hundred or a thousand! Yet this is sometimes what it takes to succeed.

Do you know, if Soichiro Honda lost his will to success after being turned down by Toyota, there will be no

The billion-dollar business that is Honda began with a series of failures and fortunate turns of luck. Honda was turned down by Toyota Motor Corporation for a job after interviewing for a job as an engineer, leaving him jobless for quite some time. He started making scooters of his own at home, and spurred on by his neighbors, finally started his own business.

If you give up too soon you will never know what you will be missing. Keep going and never quit.
The key to success is to decide what's most important to you and then take massive action each day to make it better, even when it doesn't look as if it's working.

"You are not a loser if you lost, you are a loser if you give up" -Emir Zakiar

Have a Vigor Day
-EZ

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Habit You Need to Get Rid

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Every one want to be a successful person, I want it and I bet you want it too, but do we ever get rid some habit that makes us go far away from the word "success"? this question makes you think about the things that we often do and it actually make us going far away from success.

When we think about how to achieve success, we often focus on the skills and habits we should add to our lives.  But sometimes the key to success actually lies in our ability to give up certain habits and behaviors. The habits you need to give up are:

Waiting. – The way you spend your time defines who you are.  You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when; you can only decide how you are going to live right now.  Trust me, a year from now you will wish you had started today. So, start your success life today and don't hesitated to move along with your dream.

Excuses. – Many times we make an excuse when we must do something, worse if we want to achieve our dream. Sooner or later you will come to realize that it’s not what you lose along the way that counts; it’s what you do with what you still have.  When you let go, forgive, and move on, you in no way change the past, you change the future.

Doing things you know are wrong. – Nothing is more damaging to you than doing something that you believe is wrong.  Your beliefs alone don’t help you grow and thrive, your behavior and actions do.  So always do what you know in your heart is right, for you.

Worrying about past failures. – Accept your past without regret, handle your presence with confidence, and face your future without fear.  You are today where your thoughts and actions have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts and actions take you. Remember failure is good for you to learn a lot of new things.

Blaming everyone else. – Either you own your situation or it will own you.  Either you take responsibility for your life, or someone else will.  Blame is a scapegoat – it’s an easy way out of taking accountability for your own outcome.  It’s a lot easier to point the finger at someone or something else instead of looking within.  Blame is not constructive; it does not help you or anyone else – nobody wins in the blame game.  The amount of energy and stress it takes to place blame elsewhere takes away from your ability to move forward and find a real solution.

Letting others decide what you can and can’t do. – In order to live your own authentic life, you have to follow YOUR inner heart, not someone else's.  When others say, “You can’t do it!” or “That’s impossible,” don’t lose hope.  Just because they couldn’t doesn’t mean you can’t. You are not a loser if you lost, You are a loser if you give up.

It's your life anyway no one can steer the car that you rode, you must be the one that make the ride full of enjoyment. Drive your dream like you drive your car, it pointed to a direction, if you don't have direction then you only driving along until running out of gas in the middle of nowhere.

Have a Happy Day
-EZ


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Help Others

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How's your weekend? I hope it's great full of happiness. If not, then you should read some of this interesting stories below. I found it in the internet and really make me feel gracious with life. I hope you can overcome your sadness, because there's a lot of people in this world who wanted to be just like in your place now.

In total I have 10 stories, if you want to get another story please comment and I will post it, Here's the stories:

1. Today, in a little African village where I volunteer as a nurse, I passed out food to hungry children. And since I knew her only food for the day was the slice of wheat bread I had just given her, I did not let her see me cry when she tore the slice in two and gave the bigger half to her little brother.
2.  Today, when I was walking to dinner outside in the cold with my elderly mom, she started walking slower and slower and digging through her bag. I often act out and get impatient with her. But when I finally had enough and was about to say something, she pulled out a five dollar bill and told me to give it to the homeless man sitting on the street curb.
3. Today, for a moment I was frustrated to go to work on a Saturday morning. Then I remembered waking up in a safe warm bed when others don’t. I contemplated driving in my nice car, while others walk. I sipped on my warm coffee and ate a slice of toast while I thought about how others went to bed hungry last night and woke up this morning, still hungry. Instead of fretting about working today, I choose to smile. It’s my goal to find someone who woke up cold and hungry this morning, and give them what I make today, hoping it will make much more than a day’s difference to them.
4. Today, I found one of my old high school friends, who used to tutor me in math, begging for money outside of a convenience store. I took him out to lunch and he spilled his guts to me about how his wife (also an old friend from high school) died from cancer last year; and that due to a combination of lack of medical insurance, the loss of his job, and the downturn in the economy which forced him to foreclose on his home, he has nothing left. I set him up with a place to stay in my second bedroom, and told him we’d be roommates for as long as it takes him to get back on his feet.
5. Today, I was at my job as a hostess. It was an especially hard day, and many customers had been rude to me. One man was sitting alone, eating at a table beside me. As I stood there, close to tears, he looked me in the eye and asked me what I wanted to do with my life. I told him I was going to school to be a teacher. When he left, he hugged me and handed me a twenty dollar bill. He said, “Make a difference, sweetheart,” and left.
6. Today, my son is confined to a wheelchair and can’t participate in a lot of things because of it. This past weekend we went to an orchard to buy apples. The orchard staff was offering wagon rides for a small price. He wanted to go but we couldn’t get his chair in the wagon. A couple of men working at the orchard picked him up, chair and all and took him on a 20 minute trip around the orchard. When they returned they unloaded him and refused to take the wagon ride fee. My son had the biggest smile on his face.
7. Today, while walking my dog I saw a homeless man holding a box of kittens. When I asked him about them, he said that someone had abandoned them next to a dumpster in the alley way where he sleeps. “I’ve been feeding them whatever food I could find,” he continued. “But I could use some help if you know someone who could give them a better home.” I called my dog’s vet, who is the ultimate animal lover, and told her the story and where to find the homeless man. This evening I received a voicemail from the vet. She said, “I just wanted to thank you, and let you know that I have temporarily adopted the kittens. I will make sure each of them finds a permanent, happy home. Also, I was so moved by Shawn’s (the homeless man) goodwill, and the fact that he seems levelheaded, that I have offered him a part time job at the animal clinic and a free place to stay until he can get his act together. Not sure how that will go, but I figured it was worth a try.”
8. Today, when my wife showed up to do a 5K walk in support of her breast cancer, over 400 of her current and past students (she’s a high school English teacher) and several of her colleagues showed up, unexpectedly, wearing pink shirts with her photo and a caption that read, “We’re going to beat this together.” I’ve never seen my wife so overwhelmed with joy before in my life.
9. Today, my dad brought me into the city to one of his favorite restaurants. He ordered a large amount of food and only ate half of it. On the way home, he drove a route I was unfamiliar with. He pulled over near an alley and said, “I’ll be right back.” Then he grabbed the leftovers, ran into the alley, and returned empty handed. When I asked him what he did, he replied, “There’s a homeless veteran back there who I’ve been giving leftovers to for the last 10 years.”
10. Today, I watched a teenage boy help an elderly woman with a cane onto the city bus I was riding. He was so careful with her, assisting her every step of the way. The woman had the biggest smile on her face. They both sat directly across from me, and just as I was about to compliment her with having a wonderful grandson, the boy looked at her and said, “My name is Chris. What’s your name, ma’am?”

World will be a much more beautiful place if we helped each others. If you find or see a needed person, go and help him or her whether young or old person. They need your help. And believe me in Law of Attraction when the time come and you need a help, someone else will help you.

Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time, and always start with the person nearest you. ~ Mother Teresa

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Have a Helping Day
-EZ

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Truth that Revolve Around Us

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There's a lot of truth that we often forget.  Some of this were slapping my face, what about You?

Real friends won’t ask you to change who you are. – The RIGHT people for you will love all the things about you that the WRONG people are intimidated by.  Don’t change so people will like you.  Be patient, keep being your awesome self, and pretty soon the RIGHT people will love the REAL you.

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake, and not an excuse. – If you decide to cheat, and you succeed in cheating someone out of something, don’t think that this person is a fool. Realize that this person trusted you much more than you ever deserved, and they learned a lesson about who you really are. Believe me, once you break someone's trust is like breaking a glass, you can mend it but the crack still can be seen.

Everything has been just the way it needed to be. – In life, we do lots of things.  Some we wish we could take back.  Some we wish we could relive a thousand times.  All of these things, positive and negative, have taught us important lessons and have collectively made us into the person we are today.  If we were to reverse or adjust any of them, we wouldn’t be who we are; we would be somebody else.  So just live, make mistakes, make memories, and take chances.  Never second guess who you are or where you’ve been. I believe that we did something for a reason, either it's bad or good. There's a reason behind every situation that we faced.

The difference between where you are and where you want to be, is what you do. – What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.  Don’t wait until everything is just right; it will never be perfect.  There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions.  But with each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more skilled, more confident, and more successful.  So start doing what you need to do today.  Life is a courageous journey or nothing at all.  We usually can’t become who we want to be by continuing to do what we’ve been doing. Discipline is the key.

Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. – Keep an open mind.  The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know.  We all have our own unique path and feelings.  When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.  It’s one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it’s another to think that yours is the only path. You need a growth mind to become a better person.

Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you. – Smile through the hard times, even though it doesn’t always seem to get any better.  A smile is the first step to fixing things.  The trick is to enjoy life by noticing what's right.  Don’t wish away your days waiting for better times ahead.  Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you.  Right now is life.  Don’t miss it. Try to smile when you are angry or sad, suddenly your feeling will be much more relieved, at first I don't believe it but now I can assure you to try it. Hey, smile is free : )

The route to our destination is never a straight one. – We take questionable turns and we get lost.  But it doesn’t always matter which road we embark on; what matters is that we embark.  Either way life will likely get a little complicated, and bring unexpected hurdles and changes.  But that’s okay.  Sometimes you have to stumble and feel weak for a little while to realize how strong you really are.

Have a Thinking Day
-EZ

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